The Dignity of Labor

Written by Susan Dunn, MA


I love artists, because I’m a wordsmith and they say things I can never say. Here are two of my favorite paintings about work, both by Caillebotte: http://www.webstrategies.cc/caillebotte1.jpg ; http://www.webstrategies.cc/caillebotte2.jpg .

My mother was full of aphorisms. I grew up with “All work has dignity,” and “It doesn’t matter what you do. If you’re a [floor scraper], berepparttar best one you can be.”

Coming from an intellectual family, I was always fascinated to see people work with their hands. It took such patience. They didrepparttar 123485 same thing over and over. I wondered what held their interest.

When I watched, I often saw and felt love. I watchedrepparttar 123486 carpenter pause for a moment, strokingrepparttar 123487 wood as if it were a living thing. Turning it over in his hands, caressing it.

I heardrepparttar 123488 repairman coaxingrepparttar 123489 plumbing -- “Come on baby, come on baby,” he would say torepparttar 123490 corroded screw, with pliers in his hands.

I never heard my father, a corporate attorney, talking to his brief that way, orrepparttar 123491 father of my children, a pathologist, beggingrepparttar 123492 pap smear to reveal its secrets. Though George Washington Carver claims that's how he got his secrets fromrepparttar 123493 peanut – by talking to them.

I watchedrepparttar 123494 woman who cleaned our house. Her favorite thing was to polishrepparttar 123495 silver. We took it for granted, but she sawrepparttar 123496 silver pitchers and tableware forrepparttar 123497 beautiful objects they were. She would dip intorepparttar 123498 silver polish and make swirls onrepparttar 123499 coffee pot, taking her time, admiringrepparttar 123500 object and admiring her work.

When it was done to her satisfaction, she would hold it out to me. “Ain’t dat purdy?” she would say.

The Cathedral of Notre Dame was done by such artisans (not craftsmen).

The object ofrepparttar 123501 work was not to throw up a pew as fast as you could; everything that could be embellished was embellished.

Each artisan was creating his own glory to God that would be part ofrepparttar 123502 greater whole. They were not chipping stained glass, they were building a cathedral. They also did not sign their work.

In my days as a fundraiser, I often heardrepparttar 123503 Archbishop of San Antonio speak. He had a favorite story for those of us who servedrepparttar 123504 homeless.

He told about a homeless person who came torepparttar 123505 back ofrepparttar 123506 chancery one day for food.

The Archbishop was busy writing and annoyed to be interrupted from his important work. He stormed intorepparttar 123507 kitchen, he said, threw some bread onrepparttar 123508 table, slapped some turkey on it, slammed down a mustard jar and said, "HERE! Here's your food."

The man who had asked for food picked it up, andthen put it down. "I can't eat,” he said. “I can't swallow this. You were so angry when you made this. It wasn't made with love."

Courage to Trust: A How-To Guide

Written by Liz Sumner, Life Coach MA CPC


The other day I was reviewing some affirmations and noticed a clenched feeling in my chest while reading one. Something felt out of whack and was sending me signals. The affirmation read "I have a steady, predictable income." Now there's nothing negative about those words but somehow it felt like looking throughrepparttar wrong end ofrepparttar 123484 binoculars. It made me think of lack instead of abundance. Something surprising happened as I realized this. The idea of rejecting predictability and embracingrepparttar 123485 unknown gave me an enormous burst of energy and excitement. I felt certain that this was right for me and that feeling continues.

It's as though my orientation has changed from security to possibility, fromrepparttar 123486 bird inrepparttar 123487 hand torepparttar 123488 two inrepparttar 123489 bush. Fortune favorsrepparttar 123490 brave. I will get more of what I want-- more joy, more energy, more blessings-- by increasing my trust than by protecting against fear. The opposite is also true--repparttar 123491 more I fear,repparttar 123492 more limited my world,repparttar 123493 more I settle for less.

What moves you further alongrepparttar 123494 continuum from fear to trust? Courage develops incrementally. I'm not recommending that you go from agoraphobic to professional public speaker in one fell swoop. You're not supposed to feel terrified. Start with small steps and build on your success. Little by little you can let go of what you can control and embracerepparttar 123495 unknown. Here are some examples of ways that make it easier:

Experience Kate had some anxiety about starting grad school so she planned a practice run torepparttar 123496 campus to getrepparttar 123497 lay ofrepparttar 123498 land and find her way around. Now thatrepparttar 123499 logistics are handled she feels better able to manage allrepparttar 123500 other new elements of what's to come.

Knowledge Lorraine was asked to attend a community organization to represent her group's issue. She was intrigued but scared. A friend who was part ofrepparttar 123501 organization gave her a blow by blow ofrepparttar 123502 meeting-- what would happen, who would be there, how they'd be dressed. That description maderepparttar 123503 event substantially less frightening.

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