The Chinese Year of the Monkey

Written by Tony Luck


The Chinese Year Of The Monkey..

People born underrepparttar Chinese sign ofrepparttar 110414 Monkey are great fun to be around. Monkeys are bouncy people, always young at heart, born entertainers, loving pranks and riddles. Happiest when they have an audience, they love social gatherings that are light-hearted. Others forgive their tendency to show off because they are such fun to have around. People born under this sign are intelligent and quick thinkers. However, this can lead to impatience with others and boredom.

Monkeys attract many friends because they are amusing and witty. However, they are not particularly loyal or reliable. They are so busy several interests at once that they often ignore others. They don't intend to be hurtful, it's just that their enthusiasm getsrepparttar 110415 better of them. Monkeys are best suited to flexible, fast moving careers that can meet their need for change. Few Monkeys stay inrepparttar 110416 same career for life.

There are twelve Chinese year signs inrepparttar 110417 Chinese Zodiac. Unlike in our western astrology, in Chinese astrology each sign lasts for a year. Legend has it that as Buddha was about to departrepparttar 110418 earth he summoned allrepparttar 110419 animals to say goodbye. Only twelve turned up so, to show his appreciation of their loyalty, he vowed that from then on each year would bearrepparttar 110420 name of one ofrepparttar 110421 animals. Chinese astrology is based onrepparttar 110422 Lunar Calendar. This meansrepparttar 110423 Chinese New Year does not fall onrepparttar 110424 same day each year and can vary by as much as 3 weeks. So for babies born in late January/early February it is necessary to consultrepparttar 110425 charts to determinerepparttar 110426 correct sign.

Chinese Years: February 9, 2005 - January 28, 2006: Rooster

January 22, 2004 - February 8, 2005: Monkey

February 1, 2003 - January 21, 2004: Goat

February 12, 2002 - January 31, 2003: Horse

In the crook of my arms

Written by Marsha Maung


His head is tilted back, mouth slightly open. His breath is slow and steady and his eyes almost all-closed but slightly open. His neck nestles overrepparttar crook of my arm and I stare at his face as he breathed in and breathed out. A feeling of overwhelming love washed over me. I was totally at peace as I watched my son sleep in my arms.

I must say that there's absolutely nothing quite like it at all.

When was it that he got so big? He's almost too big to fit into my arms as his legs dangled offrepparttar 110413 edge of my other arm. He speaks almost in adult-fashion now but in child lingo. He has masteredrepparttar 110414 art of writing and drawing a very funny and ‘individualistic' sketch ofrepparttar 110415 sun and a smiley face. He is old enough to tell me that his favorite color is red and favorite number is 4. I know I am his mom butrepparttar 110416 effects of being a protector, a caregiver; a mom has never failed to astound me.

Sometimes daily needs outweighrepparttar 110417 needs of our children. Their need to have us by their sides to kissrepparttar 110418 wounds and to healrepparttar 110419 tantrums. They need us – now what else can be more important than that. They need us to tell them that it's OK when others are not nice to them and that they don't have to avengerepparttar 110420 bad behavior of others. They need us to tell them that it's OK to feel bad when they've made a mistake and are asked to say sorry forrepparttar 110421 mistakes. They need us to bring them out inrepparttar 110422 playground and teach them about nature, about living and aboutrepparttar 110423 world. They need us. Period.

There are times that I wonder if I should just give uprepparttar 110424 working arrangement that I have fiercely fought for forrepparttar 110425 past 5 years and go back intorepparttar 110426 rat race. There are weak moments when I wonder if I have donerepparttar 110427 wrong thing and have pampered them by trying to be an overly ‘positive' parent. I wonder too, if my kids are good kids or bad kids. But now I know, there's no such thing as a bad kid; and a good kid is a stroke of luck.

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