The Attack On The Mail Order Brides Industry (Part Three)

Written by Jamie Morrow

I feel like you are catering to a clientele who are only capable of having shallow relationships.

I cater to all men you just happen to think men are shallow for being men And if that's how you want to make a buck, I guess that's good for you. But allrepparttar cynicism you are pandering to is just causing more cynicism to grow.

The cynicism is in your head. Cynicism is not derived from bringing a couple into happiness. There is also evidence of unfair bias against Colombian men mentioned in your website or your last correspondence, I can't remember where. But it says that these men are not desired by Colombian women because they drink and/or are unfaithful. I get that this is your angle; I mean you've got to put down American women and Colombian men to justifyrepparttar 150321 need for your business.

I do not put down Colombian men any differently than a football player saying to another football player from another team that we are going to win because we believe we arerepparttar 150322 better football team. The quote you are referring to is from a Colombian woman. This is what many Colombian women think of Colombian men. I do not to create an "angle" whenrepparttar 150323 reality is ample promotion forrepparttar 150324 business. The "need" is natural I can not create a need. You just do not likerepparttar 150325 fact of American men seeking beautiful foreign women who are eager to meet quality American men But I believe that people are people, no matter where they come from or what they look like or how much money they have.

"People are people" only inrepparttar 150326 broadest since. People are different and different places have different types of people andrepparttar 150327 difference that American men have are desired by many foreign women. Stereotyping people based on sex or appearance or culture is hurtful and destructive.

I apply generalization where fitting. But there is no content to your charges of "stereotyping", "pandering", "put down" "cynicism", "shallow" these are just strong words in an empty shell. I probably won't be surprised if you comb over my letter thoroughly and get out your hair splitting devices and over-analyze every last semantic or grammatical nuance of my e-mail. I am not gifted atrepparttar 150328 art of argument or even communication for that matter.

This is just an excuse for hiding behind sloppy reasoning and unsubstantiated concerns. You presented a case that was filled with falsehoods and you expect this to go unchallenged. I agree you have difficulty inrepparttar 150329 art of debate and communications. However, this is due to your faulty thinking; it would be impossible for anyone to logically defend your position regardless of how well they communicated. Instead you attack and avoid any questioning that would distinctly define your position and likely contradictions. I asked you 20 questions and you failed to answer one single question. Yes, why answer any question that would make you look foolish for your beliefs. Doesn't matter that I answered every one of your questions to dorepparttar 150330 same in return just doesn't come to mind even though I specifically requested that you do so so we could fully understand your position. I address onlyrepparttar 150331 overall impression I gleaned from your website - that I find it derogatory - andrepparttar 150332 documented abuses and anecdotal evidence thatrepparttar 150333 mail order bride industry is a sketchy one.

Your "impression" was void of facts. Whether or not you agree with anything I have written, you must admit that one unkind turn deserves another. That's only fair right?

Yes. You describe American women in unkind terms, even saying that we all think we'rerepparttar 150334 best or something like that.

I specifically said, "To attractrepparttar 150335 premium American woman (and they all think their premium) requires you to be atrepparttar 150336 top of your game." I would hardly call this as unkind this andrepparttar 150337 three other sentences directly or indirectly referencing American women onrepparttar 150338 website if anything is a praising. I find a strong self esteem, discriminating taste and complicated traits as positive features. I have made it very clear I do not care or need to insult American women to highlight other avenues for American men that may be to their liking. Why you object to men having this avenue is still unexplained. Then you show a picture of a table of young Colombian women "vying" for a customer's attention. And this is not degrading torepparttar 150339 Colombian women?

I did not think it was degrading for me to be vying for my wife's attention and allrepparttar 150340 other women I pursued inrepparttar 150341 past. So why should it be any different for women to dorepparttar 150342 same. If anything it puts them in control of who they choose to seek. When I was in my 20's I had women pursuing me and I never thought less of them for this. In fact I foundrepparttar 150343 brightest and more accomplished women generally did this. The Colombian women that have participated in these social gathering have foundrepparttar 150344 experience to be fun, interesting and safe. Many of these women have never met an American man so what's wrong with them sharing a conversation with other women to see if there is a mutual interest in a man they agree to meet based on seeing his photo and profile? Having to vie for a male's attention?

The Attack & Defense of the Mail Order Bride Business (Part Two)

Written by Jamie Morrow

“You do realize that there is nothing about you as a person that would make anyone want to marry you, only things that you happen to possess by virtue of being lucky enough to be born inrepparttar U.S.”

Amy I am a typical American man. My possessions are average and everything I possess came from hard work and endeavor. No woman's eyes are going to pop-out by looking at my possessions. I would have to say you arerepparttar 150320 lucky one Amy. Very few places inrepparttar 150321 world can a woman say such reckless and unsubstantiated believes as you have without consequences. But you live inrepparttar 150322 United States, so you can promote unproductive agendas and extol feminist myths with no consequences forrepparttar 150323 damage that entails from your deceptive messages. How lucky you are. But you know what; your misguided view does not penetrate my well-being. You are correct in calling me lucky. I often tell my beautiful wife Karina how lucky I am to have met her, and you know what Amy… she tells merepparttar 150324 same thing.

“You are trying to get something you do not deserve: love, loyalty, respect, companionship.”

Amy everything you have said is nothing more than an emotional diatribe you provide no content to your message. You are nothing more than a name caller. I can only imagine that if you had any physical strength you would also be a bully.

“News Flash: If you have to pay someone to be around you, thenrepparttar 150325 relationship is not real.”

I would agree. Why do you bring this up? The men do not pay forrepparttar 150326 woman andrepparttar 150327 women do not pay forrepparttar 150328 man.

“Acceptrepparttar 150329 fact that you are a loser, doomed to be alone, or content yourself with finding another loser like yourself who may want to be with you.”

Amy I am a happily married man living a fun life. Any objective person would be able to see your considerations are clouded with hate and bigotry. You haterepparttar 150330 idea of American men having alternatives to American women, and you have a superiority complex and a prejudice towards foreign women. A confidant woman would not be threatened by competition, but it appears to scare you. You hide your fear underrepparttar 150331 guise that you care about these women torepparttar 150332 point that you fabricate their condition and what is in their hearts. If anyone should be ashamed Amy, it is you.

“Lower your standards to what you can reasonably attain, and leave these poor, vulnerable women alone. I want to cry when I think ofrepparttar 150333 horror these women face when they are stuck with losers like you.”

I feel very sorry for you Amy. Your self-inflicted pain comes from a vision of terror that does not exist. I hope it is not too late for you to feel better about yourself. I invite you to answer allrepparttar 150334 questions I have asked, and by that I do not mean respond. I mean actually answer my questions, surprise me with an exchange void of glaring lies and insulting attacks. Can you raise yourself to those standards? If what you believe is true, you should have no difficulty in presenting a logical, rightful position. Now if you don't mind, I have to eat dinner, burned rice.

Jamie Engagerepparttar 150335 Exotic - Latin Mail Order Brides

I would like to say that I am sorry for launching a personal attack on you, a total stranger. I have just heard so many horror stories about these kinds of things. But I did let my anger at these injustices getrepparttar 150336 better of me, and I should not have.

Amy apologizes forrepparttar 150337 personal attack; yet what injustice and horror stories is she referring to? It appears she is saying that foreign women from developing countries that marry American men are at risk. But she does not say what this risk is, why they are at risk, to what extent they are at risk or ifrepparttar 150338 risk is any different than any American man or American woman would face being married. Amy does not factor in any evidence to justify her emotional outcry. Her anger is based on a false conclusion. That said, I do find your website extremely offensive and inflammatory in that you stereotype and degrade American women by saying that men can find "younger, more beautiful women than what is locally available" in Latin America.

This fact does not degrade American women. It speaks ofrepparttar 150339 competitive advantage that American men have internationally due to qualities that foreign women appreciate and are often not accustomed to fromrepparttar 150340 local men. What I believe you find "offensive" is American men selecting a foreign wife that you consider to be of lower caliber than American women. That statement does not speak very highly of your customers - it also stereotypes them (as shallow).

Why is it shallow to appreciate beauty and youth? You can claim beauty is superficial, butrepparttar 150341 reality is most of us want to be beautiful (women more so than men) and most men enjoyrepparttar 150342 company of beautiful looking women. If we want chocolate instead of broccoli you telling us that broccoli has more nutrition and substance than chocolate does not make us superficial for our selection of chocolate. It is ironic because you imply that American women place too much importance on money and personality, and then you appeal torepparttar 150343 superficial and shallow aspects of your customers who are placing importance on age and physical appearance.

People do not consider youth and beauty as irrelevant as you do. At no time do I say this is all that men want and at no time does wanting a beautiful, young, foreign wife correlate to superficiality on their part. What you are doing is no different than calling someone shallow and superficial for playing paddle ball onrepparttar 150344 beach instead of chess inrepparttar 150345 den. Do these men seem any more noble thanrepparttar 150346 American women (as you describe them) that they are trying to avoid?

I never said these men are trying to "avoid" American women. I am pronouncing that they have other alternatives to American women, an extension of their search horizon. I understand that these are marketing tactics and you must appeal to your customers. But relationships are not trade negotiations, where one party says: "o.k., I am bringing X beauty points torepparttar 150347 table and Y personality points, what does that buy me?"

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