Unfortunately, you can't buy formula. But if you could, it would be hotter than reality television shows!

So, what is this amazing 3-step formula I'm talking about?

Okay. Here it is:

1. Have a goal.

2. Do what you love.

3. Have relentless desire and determination.

That's it. That's formula.

Now don't be fooled by simplicity of formula. After all, if it were easy, everyone would be successful and we all know that's not case.

However, formula is definitely viable for anyone whom religiously follows steps.

Let's start with first part of formula:

(1.) Have a goal.

Every ounce of human progress--our inventions big and small, our medical and scientific discoveries, our engineering achievements, our business successes--were first visualized before they became realities. High-tech satellites orbit earth because scientists made it their goal to conquer space.

So, what is a goal?

A goal is an objective, a purpose. A goal is more than just a dream, it's a dream acted upon. A goal is more than just sitting back and "wishing you could." A goal is a clear-as- glass, "This is what I'm working toward."

Nothing happens, no steps forward are taken, until a goal is established. Without goals, individuals just wander aimlessly through life under-achieving. They stumble and bumble along, not having a clue where they're going. So, as a result, they never get anywhere.

Goals are as essential to success as air is to life. No one ever stumbles into success, without having a clear-cut goal. (Winning lottery doesn't count). Develop a clear picture of where you want to go.

Write your goals down and review them every single day. Formulate a game plan. Ask yourself where you want to be a month from now--a year from now--3 years, 5 years, 10 years.

Tape a picture of your goal on your bathroom mirror and on your refrigerator--whether it's a new house, a new car, whatever.

Make visualizing and thinking about your goals a daily exercise. Because it is only by constantly visualizing your goals will they become a reality.

And don't worry about setbacks, detours or little bumps in road or big bumps either for that matter. Setbacks happen to everyone. That's life. Forget about it. Make necessary adjustments and keep going.

Up next is second part of formula:

(2.) Do what you love.

There's an old saying, "Do what you love and you'll never have to work a day in your life!"

Do you understand what that means? It means if you work at doing something you truly love and enjoy, it won't really seem like work at all.

Speaking from personal experience, I'm here to tell you that is absolutely truth. Let me give you an example of what I'm talking about.

A few years ago, I made it my goal to have a successful business on Internet, even though I had no computer experience and knew absolutely nothing about Internet.

At that time, I didn't even own a computer. All I had was my WebTV and a boatload of determination.

Well, my friends, to make a long story short, I'm happy to say that I've achieved that goal. And now I get to stay home all day, everyday and play on my computer, writing articles like this one and publishing my "Let's Make Money Newsletter."

So, how did I do it?

I went to libray and taught myself how to use a computer. I read book after book on how Internet works and I taught myself basic HTML (very basic).

Are you working at a job where boss has no interpersonal skills; micro-manages you and treats you like a child?

Do you work for a fault finding boss who yells and screams and talks to you in an arrogant and demeaning manner? Are you are tired of walking on eggshells at work because any small thing could set off an “explosion”

Is your boss hostile?

If you work for a hostile boss and nothing has been done to resolve situation, you probably have found out that on many occasions, you have sleepless nights, you are depressed, your blood pressure has risen, you have constant migraines, you are losing or gaining weight, your friends think you whine too much, because all you talk about is your job and your boss, your self esteem is beginning to erode and you are just so frustrated. Since this is a situation you have to deal with everyday, you are also starting to feel helpless.

This whole thing with work and boss is consuming your life and it’s taking a toll on your health!

How do you handle working with a hostile boss?

Most people try to handle this by complaining to their co-workers, friends and family about how badly boss is treating them, they cry their eyes out in bathroom or in their cubicles, they keep journals to record every incident (date and time included) hoping to use it as evidence if need arises, they make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints, if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with boss to try and resolve situation, they come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their bosses a piece of there mind (not recommended) and so forth. In most cases, all this happens to no avail.

How can you adequately deal with this situation and get back your life?

1. Start looking for another Job.

If your efforts to resolve situation are not working out and your health is at risk…the sooner you start exploring other options, better.