The #1 Job Search Mistake To Avoid: Not Preparing Your Mind!

Written by Sarah Breinig


For your job search to be successful, you need to start withrepparttar right frame of mind and attitude. If this is not handled right away, everything you do will show lack of confidence, fear and desperation - & poor results.

Mental preparation is probably your most important task as you proceed in your job search. This not only needs to be worked on right fromrepparttar 107039 start, but also on an ongoing basis.

A healthy mindset is your best asset forrepparttar 107040 daunting task ahead. Here are some points to help you prepare mentally:

1. Maintain positive self-esteem. You must believe in yourself and your abilities. You have special skills and talents that are valuable. Talk and think positively about yourself. Projecting this isrepparttar 107041 only way prospective employers will believe in you. If you are not convinced yourself, you will not be able to convince anyone else. Your confidence and self-belief are two important personality traits that any employer looks for, and they cannot be faked, only instilled. Master them, and you’ll be way ahead ofrepparttar 107042 game.

2. Develop and maintain a positive attitude. Being negative about your current job situation makes a dramatic impact on how you project yourself torepparttar 107043 outside world - and you are seldom unaware how terribly negative you really are. This is expressed in your body language, your tone of voice, your physical attributes, and your verbal communications - i.e. everything that you project. Prospective employers are especially attuned to pick up on this. Project a genuine, positive, well-balanced attitude to everyone you come across during your job search. Treat everyone with warmth and courtesy. Surround yourself with positive people and keep away from those who bring you down.

3. Don't act desperate. You may be currently unemployed or you may simply hate your current job immensely and want out or you may be seeking your first job. All these conditions have a propensity to project you as being desperate! Watch out for this. You have to ensure that you don't let anyone see you sweat. Maintain a confident 'calmness' and make sure you don't swing too far and appear indifferent.

4. Don't be a victim. It's easy to blame yourself and others for your situation - DON'T! Don't speak badly of your current employer or job. Let go of regrets aboutrepparttar 107044 past. Remove any bitterness you may have because this will leak into all of your communication - and you won't even aware of it. Eliminate this bad practice and you'll be rewarded with positive outcomes - not only in your job search - but also in every other aspect of living.

Top 10 Ways to Start Living a More Meaningful Life

Written by Dorene Lehavi


Too many of us live like goldfish, swimming inrepparttar same orbit day in and day out feeling uninspired, tired, bored and sometimes worse. Life is much too precious to waste that way. Every person has a unique purpose in life. I implore you not to waste your days berating yourself for what you don’t know and don’t do well. Instead, discover your strengths, passions, purpose and build your life on those. Here are 10 ideas about living a meaningful life, as I understand them. Embracing even a few of these will help you beginrepparttar 107038 exciting journey of self discovery. 1. We are all here for a purpose. Your being here makes a difference. Your purpose may be obscure to you and a challenge to discover. Start now. There are many resources, coaches and books to help you with this endeavor. 2. The secret to fulfillment is self knowledge. Startrepparttar 107039 exciting journey of discovery. 3. The second part ofrepparttar 107040 secret to fulfillment is to apply your self knowledge to what you do and how you live. The more you know,repparttar 107041 more you can actively pursue your true purpose. 4. Don’t waste time lamenting what you don’t do well. Concentrate on your strengths. Those reflect who you are. Leaverepparttar 107042 other things to people who do them well.

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