The 12 Birds of Christmas

Written by Judith Pennington


The hustle and bustle ofrepparttar holiday season is joyful for some people and stressful for others. If you begin to feel pressured by a need to give justrepparttar 130475 right gift orrepparttar 130476 perfect holiday meal, perhaps these commonsensical birds of Christmas will re-mind you to peaceful balance.

So often we forget thatrepparttar 130477 real gift ofrepparttar 130478 season is each and every one of us--which means you!

1. Fly like an eagle torepparttar 130479 heights of inspiration and soar intorepparttar 130480 Spirit ofrepparttar 130481 holidays. Winging alongrepparttar 130482 currents of joy inspires an effortless flow of creative ideas. Fromrepparttar 130483 eagle's higher perspective, with our hearts as big asrepparttar 130484 world, we seerepparttar 130485 divine right solution to any question or challenge. Don't letrepparttar 130486 ducks of trivia peck at your feet. Soar likerepparttar 130487 eagle that you are!

2. While gathering gifts, duckrepparttar 130488 holiday rush by floating onrepparttar 130489 waters of your creativity. Why not give your loved ones a basket of goodies filled with valued photographs, a card written fromrepparttar 130490 heart, a jar of homemade jam, movie tickets, a life-changing book from your library? Creative fun makes this gift sing. You could also duck crowded malls (unless you like them!) by ordering children's gifts from catalogues. Let your (webbed) fingers dorepparttar 130491 walking by searching online for creative toys that will make a difference inrepparttar 130492 lives ofrepparttar 130493 children you love.

3. Laugh like a cuckoo bird. My grandson, at age 3, said, "Granny! I love to laugh. Let's laugh!" and we laughed crazily at absolutely nothing--which, of course, was funny in itself. We had a rollicking good time and felt great afterward. You will, too.

4. Aware that anger and hurt distort our perceptual abilities, goose yourself whenrepparttar 130494 going gets rough--especially during gatherings of friends and family. This isrepparttar 130495 Buddhist art of "stopping." Simply notice what upset you and later on, when you are calm, determine how to address or remedyrepparttar 130496 problem. A stitch in time...uh, makes a good feather bed.

5. Be likerepparttar 130497 great blue heron and fish inrepparttar 130498 deep waters of meditation forrepparttar 130499 food of life--comfort and companionship--when you feel hungry, angry, lonely or tired (indicators that it's time to HALT). Catching moods before they become attitudes will help you toleraterepparttar 130500 pace and avoid Scroogeness.

Calendars and Personality Type

Written by Janet Barclay


I recently conducted a survey to look atrepparttar relationship between an individual’s personality type and his or her organizing and time management style, and noticed thatrepparttar 130473 majority of participants said they have a calendar system that works for them. As there are so many time management systems available, both paper-based and electronic, I thought it would be interesting to find out which calendar systems are most popular with each personality type, and asked my ezine subscribers and visitors to my website to describe their time management system, what they like and dislike about it, and their personality type according torepparttar 130474 Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® (MBTI®). The MBTI measures your preferences in four areas:

The source of your energy (Introversion / Extraversion) Taking in information (Sensing / INtuition) Decision-making (Thinking / Feeling) Dealing withrepparttar 130475 outer world (Judging / Perceiving) Becauserepparttar 130476 Judging / Perceiving preference pertains torepparttar 130477 way you deal withrepparttar 130478 outer world, it hasrepparttar 130479 greatest influence onrepparttar 130480 way you manage time and space, however,repparttar 130481 other preferences also come into play, as described in earlier articles. Your preferences inrepparttar 130482 four areas listed above combine to form one of 16 different personality types.

This article is a summary ofrepparttar 130483 responses I received, according torepparttar 130484 participants' stated personality type. Where specific time management products were named, this information has been included.

Due to their preference for planning and their attention to detail,repparttar 130485 Sensing Judging types are generally considered natural organizers with a strong attachment to schedules and deadlines. Most formal time management systems onrepparttar 130486 market were designed by and for SJ types.

Although one ISTJ participant stated that he doesn’t use a time management system at all,repparttar 130487 others showed a preference for a paper-based system. Most likerepparttar 130488 week-at-a-glance format, eitherrepparttar 130489 Day Runner® orrepparttar 130490 Taylor Planner®, because it allows them to visualize what they have to do. One student supplements her daily planner with a wall-mounted dry-erase calendar as well as a dry-erase board containing her weekly time map.

ISFJ participants also showed a preference for a paper-based system. Although one stated that she loves technology and was given a Palm Pilot®, she has no desire to give up her Day-Timer®, which has a monthly calendar that allows her to see her commitments at a glance. It also includes two pages for each day, with space for a to-do list and daily schedule, as well as blank space for jotting down phone messages and important thoughts. Others are less concerned with scheduling, but use daily to-do lists.

The only ESFJ who responded torepparttar 130491 survey indicated a preference forrepparttar 130492 Palm Pilot®, which allows her to easily search for and retrieve information and to sync with her Outlook® calendar. She prefers to use paper for ideas that she needs to "sketch" visually and for face-to-face situations with clients whererepparttar 130493 Palm Pilot® might seem a distraction or even rude.

Unfortunately, no ESTJ's took part inrepparttar 130494 survey, but according to Sandra Krebs Hirsch & Jean Kummerow, authors of LifeTypes, and Larry Demarest, author of Out of Time: Howrepparttar 130495 Sixteen Types Manage Their Time and Work, ESTJ's like to-do lists and use a calendar or planner to keep track of what has been done and what still needs to be addressed. ESTJ's typically plan thoroughly, scheduling preparation time for meetings as well as forrepparttar 130496 meeting itself.

Although a wide variety of systems were reported, due to their preference for Intuition, INtuitive Feeling types generally prefer time management systems that allow them to seerepparttar 130497 big picture.

ENFP's reported using multiple calendars for different functions. One uses a Palm Pilot® for scheduling, but creates a daily to-do list using Microsoft Word®, so that she can cross out tasks as she completes them. Another uses an electronic calendar and task list along with a manual tickler file consisting of a folder for each day ofrepparttar 130498 month and a folder for each month, where she keeps allrepparttar 130499 paperwork to back up her electronic system. A third uses a Day-Timer® system, one page per day, folio size, with monthly calendar inserts to keep on track, along with a calendar onrepparttar 130500 kitchen fridge to keep track of family activities.

INFP's hadrepparttar 130501 widest participation rate inrepparttar 130502 survey, and reported a variety of time management system preferences, encompassing both paper-based and electronic systems. One successfully manages her busy schedule with a PDA to schedule personal and private practice appointments. She schedules job appointments on her computer at work using Outlook® and syncs her PDA and work computer upon arrival and again before leaving work. Another usesrepparttar 130503 Palm Pilot® for scheduling and alarms, along with Microsoft Streets and Trips® to find locations and download torepparttar 130504 PDA. She likesrepparttar 130505 ability to print her calendar and haverepparttar 130506 entire month in front of her.

Another uses a Franklin Planner® “when she thinks of it,” sometimes recording tasks that have been completed, in case she need to remember when she started something, and usesrepparttar 130507 Microsoft Works® calendar occasionally as well. One INFP designed her own multi-ring planning system.

All INFJ participants identified very strong preferences in terms of their time management tools, although their preferences varied widely, and included both paper-based and electronic systems. One likesrepparttar 130508 compactness, durability, and portability of her black leather Day-Timer®, inrepparttar 130509 week-at-a-glance format. She doesn’t feel her computer is reliable enough to use as a time management tool. Another tried usingrepparttar 130510 Outlook® calendar, but found it wasn’t functional for her, since she isn’t always at her computer. She believes a PDA would be useful as it would allow her to easily transfer information betweenrepparttar 130511 two, but until she can afford one, she uses paper Day-Timers®, one page per day format. She likesrepparttar 130512 monthly planner for seeingrepparttar 130513 whole picture andrepparttar 130514 one page per day gives her enough space to "exploderepparttar 130515 detail" when necessary. She also keeps a family calendar inrepparttar 130516 kitchen. Yet another makes maximum use of technology, combining a Palm Pilot® with desktop contact management software, and synchronizingrepparttar 130517 two regularly.

Cont'd on page 2 ==>
 
ImproveHomeLife.com © 2005
Terms of Use