Over past decade, I've worked with thousands of individuals seeking ways to improve their ability to attract their ideal mate. As a result, I've created a list of ten most commonly prescribed personal development steps I recommend for those wanting to attract and create their ideal relationship. I'll share first five steps with you today. Read next week's newsletter for next five steps.
1. Get complete with your past to break relationship patterns.
When you no longer carry "baggage" about your past relationships and your childhood, you are emotionally free to be in your ideal relationship. When you're emotionally free, you are better able to:
* recognize partners who are incompatible with you before you get involved; * naturally attract more suitable partners; * stop trying to resolve issues from old relationships in your current one; * transform all of your relationships to be clear and satisfying.
If you're ready to get complete with your past, take my free PatternTracker Quiz at http://www.whatittakes.com/Quiz2/patterntracker.html. The quiz will help you identify and understand your patterns, making it less likely that you'll repeat them in future.
2. Ask for what you want in any relationship.
It is a myth that people should know what you want. When you are able to ask for what you want, you become easier to be with, easier to delight, and therefore much more attractive. People see you as clear and straight-forward.
To learn how to ask for want you want in your relationships, read my article, "Ask Right and You May Receive," http://www.whatittakes.com/Archive/Newsletter40to49/newsletter__42.shtml.
3. The more you want a relationship, have a laundry list, a timetable for when it should occur, less likely you are to have it.
The only way to attract a fulfilling relationship is to have a fulfilling life. You get to have a fulfilling life with or without a partner, while becoming naturally attractive. When you are attractive in this way, you no longer need to look for your ideal partner - you will automatically attract him or her.
I challenge you to create a fulfilling life in every way. For ideas on how to enrich your life, read "Single and Happy," http://www.whatittakes.com/Archive/Newsletter80to89/newsletter__85.shtml.