Tech Abuse and Your Child: What You Can Do

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Personal and Professional Development Coach


New technology brings new ways to stay in touch and guard your child's safety but it also brings new ways to steal, cheat, bully, act irresponsibly, and harm others.

Bullying via camera cell phones and Internet is an international problem and misuse starts younger than you might imagine. BBC reports that one in nine 5-9 year olds has a mobile phone, and over a third of primary school children with mobile phones have received name-calling text messages. 10% have received threats atrepparttar level of “bullying”.

CAMERA CELLPHONES

Preteens and teens use cell phone cameras to photograph peers and humiliate them overrepparttar 111240 Internet, such as photographing a student naked inrepparttar 111241 locker room. Text messages are also used for harassment and cheating on exams.

Legislation is starting aboutrepparttar 111242 privacy aspects of such photography, beginning with restrictions on federally-owned land. The private sector is also swinging into action. The YMCA in Australia has forbiddenrepparttar 111243 use of cellphone cameras in their facilities.

IDENTITY THEFT

You should also be aware that someone standing near you atrepparttar 111244 checkout counter with a cell phone could photograph your credit card and have access to allrepparttar 111245 information.

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

While we all wait to see if social norms will develop regardingrepparttar 111246 use of cell phones, what do you think? Personally, I wouldn’t count on it or it would already have happened. Here are some things you can do:

1.Be proactive.

Work with school officials about bullying. Ray Hughes, violence prevention coordinator withrepparttar 111247 Thames Valley District School says a classroom or seat change can helprepparttar 111248 bullied, and bullies need consistent non-violent enforcement of consequences for their actions both at home and at school.

TV, Video Games, and Your Kids

Written by Mark Brandenburg MA,, CPCC


There's been a great debate in our country forrepparttar last number of years concerning violent TV and video games.

There are thousands of studies indicating that there's a link between violent video images and increased aggressiveness and violence in children.

There are also studies that say there's little relationship betweenrepparttar 111239 two, and that there may even be some visual/spatial benefits that kids receive from video games.

According torepparttar 111240 American Academy of Pediatrics,repparttar 111241 average child in this country will see 200,000 acts of violence byrepparttar 111242 time they're eighteen.

Common sense tells me this is probably not benefiting them.

Butrepparttar 111243 truth is that it's difficult to proverepparttar 111244 exact impact that these images have on kids.

For parents, this may berepparttar 111245 wrong question to be asking. Perhaps there are other issues here that would be useful to consider.

As a coach who works with parents, I seerepparttar 111246 frequent power struggles that come up around video games and TV watching. When I see young kids in front of a screen, I wonder about all ofrepparttar 111247 other things those kids might be doing.

But it's extremely difficult to be a parent withoutrepparttar 111248 "electric babysitter" these days, especially considering how busy parents are today. There is alsorepparttar 111249 added complication of other parents who allow greater access to video games and TV to their kids.

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