Journal your Way to
Altar and Beyond By Nily Glaser Copyright: © Nily Glaser 2004Congratulations! you are engaged to be married. You are at
door steps of
most exciting time in your life. Enjoy it! Chronicle it! Put your journey in a journal! and include your thoughts and feelings. Or better yet, transform your journal into a Wedding Scrap Book.
Create a family legacy to share
memories of your engagement, wedding and life together with your children and grandchildren.
Keep a diary of actions taken, experiences and feelings as they occur or shortly thereafter. Put your ideas, dreams, goals desires and aspirations on paper. Write about family happening about activities you participated in, about your friends and your loved ones. How you feel and whatever is important to you at that moment, and by all means add pictures.
Keep a little pad and a pen handy in your pocket, purse or bag at all times and write in it. This will assure that what you write is fresh and is not written from memory.
Actually keeping a journal will help you prepare for your wedding and beyond. The action of putting your experiences, thoughts, feelings, ideas, dreams, desires and aspirations on paper will accomplish more than merely a record to look back to and share with
following generations.
When you make your journal, your "best friend", it will help you reduce
stress that builds up as you prepare for your wedding. If you continue after your wedding,
mere act of journaling will reduce stress that comes with married life. Additionally your journal will help you set goals, get organized and focus on
task at hand.
Your journal is a reflection of you! Make it very personal and very special! choose what you will write in, what you will write with, what pictures you will include and whether you'd like to add some quotes to reflect your personality. Look at as many options as are available to you and select
ones that are "you". Whether you opt for natural paper books and fancy pens, or prefer to write using your computer you must be comfortable with
tools you choose. If you opt for
computer, make sure you are comfortable with
set up and that you not only back it up, but print
pages.