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THE SECRETS OF SUCCESS

by Craig Lock

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http://www.elkpublications.com/godzone.htm Dale Carnegie made this observation: "Most of important things in world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." In end, it's persistent bulldog that will own backyard. Perhaps there's some hope for me, after all then!

It's in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped." -- Anthony Robbins

"If you've tried to do something and failed you are much better off, than, if you tried to do nothing and succeeded."

I believe some essential qualities in achieving success in life are:

# DRIVE # PASSION # ENERGY # SELF BELIEF and INNER CONFIDENCE and most importantly # HAVING A LIFE PURPOSE

HOW to do it?...Listen to that still inner voice deep within you - your soul. Nurture your inner qualities of intuition. Focus on your strengths and build on your weaknesses (but also build up your strengths even more).

Develop strategic relationships, where you build teams with people whose skills you lack. Build "win-win" relationships with your complementary relationships, so you ALL win. It's process of synergy at work - that is, 1+1 =3 (or perhaps even 111)

To do this effectively, you need to share a common vision of where you (and/or your business) are headed.

By Nisandeh Neta (based on text by Richard Mark-Coates)

I've experimented with conscious manifesting techniques for 13 years now. For 5 years I have taught others tools that I myself have learned in a course called 'Manifesting Results'. Some people come to course with a preconception that I'm going to teach them how to manifest. The bad news is that I'm not going to do that. The good news is that you already DO manifest everything in your life. You always have. Since we all already create our own realities, what we do in course is slow down creative process and learn how this is done, in order to understand principals behind and in so doing adjust things and create something different.

We create our reality from our Thoughts, Feelings, Choices and Beliefs. Lets explore each of these:

THOUGHTS Your unconscious mind works in same manner as a refrigerator. A refrigerator cannot tell truth from a lie, has no sense of humor, always works in present time, always accepts what comes in and simply agrees and says, "YES".

Throughout your life your fridge has been faithfully storing information.

Whenever any of your senses picked up a message that you are a good person or a loveable person, your fridge opened its door, said, "YES" and stored it away.

Of course, any time that you picked up that you were a bad person, unworthy or unlovable, your fridge just says, "YES" and stores it away.

You therefore have, a lot of stored data, and your self- image as well as your self-esteem are based on this information.

Studies show that 80% of all input we receive as kids is negative ("don't do this", "that is bad"). Remembering that a child is like a sponge and he or she receives and believes anything that is said to him or her, there's little wonder why we end up in a society of people who's belief systems are made up of "I am not good enough", "I don't deserve", "I'll fuck it up", etc...

So, what to do? How about balancing some of negative information, with something positive? How about utilizing positive affirmations? I know that for many, affirmations work, whilst others just get bored with them. There is a way however, to use them with powerful results, as long as we employ power of our feelings.

But before jumping to our feelings, we need to remember a few basics: 1. Repeat thought over and over again. You have spent years filling up your fridge with garbage. Do you really expect that a few days of positive affirmations would balance it out? 2. Use present tense. "I will earn a million next year" doesn't work. Tomorrow never comes. 3. Use positive terms. "I quit overeating" puts weight on overeating. Make it instead: "I eat only what my body needs"

FEELINGS It has been said: "Thoughts create and feelings bring alive." It is as if your thoughts are plan on paper and your feelings bring it into 3-dimensional reality. If you really want something in your life, let your excitement be there. Tell world. You deserve it.

Fear is same energy as excitement. If you lean away from something, you get fear. If you lean towards it, you get excitement.