Written by Craig Lock

We hope thatrepparttar following article may be informative and/or helpful for your e-zine, or on your web site. (There are some amendments to this previously published article). Craig Lock's other articles (internet marketing, self help, writing and money) are available at: Please feel free to publish them in your ezine or web site.

"I share what I know, so that others may grow".


by Craig Lock and Dale Carnegie made this observation: "Most ofrepparttar 124029 important things inrepparttar 124030 world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." Inrepparttar 124031 end, it'srepparttar 124032 persistent bulldog that will ownrepparttar 124033 backyard. Perhaps there's some hope for me, after all then!

It's in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped." -- Anthony Robbins

"If you've tried to do something and failed you are much better off, than, if you tried to do nothing and succeeded."

I believe some essential qualities in achieving success in life are:


HOW to do it?...Listen to that still inner voice deep within you - your soul. Nurture your inner qualities of intuition. Focus on your strengths and build on your weaknesses (but also build up your strengths even more).

Develop strategic relationships, where you build teams with people whose skills you lack. Build "win-win" relationships with your complementary relationships, so you ALL win. It'srepparttar 124034 process of synergy at work - that is, 1+1 =3 (or perhaps even 111)

To do this effectively, you need to share a common vision of where you (and/or your business) are headed.

To do this you need to be an effective communicator in communicating your goals and vision to others.

Manifesting - create your own reality

Written by Nisandeh Neta

Manifesting - Create Your Own Reality

By Nisandeh Neta (based on text by Richard Mark-Coates)

I've experimented with conscious manifesting techniques for 13 years now. For 5 years I have taught othersrepparttar tools that I myself have learned in a course called 'Manifesting Results'. Some people come torepparttar 124028 course with a preconception that I'm going to teach them how to manifest. The bad news is that I'm not going to do that. The good news is that you already DO manifest everything in your life. You always have. Since we all already create our own realities, what we do inrepparttar 124029 course is slow downrepparttar 124030 creative process and learn how this is done, in order to understandrepparttar 124031 principals behind and in so doing adjust things and create something different.

We create our reality from our Thoughts, Feelings, Choices and Beliefs. Lets explore each of these:

THOUGHTS Your unconscious mind works inrepparttar 124032 same manner as a refrigerator. A refrigerator cannot tellrepparttar 124033 truth from a lie, has no sense of humor, always works in present time, always accepts what comes in and simply agrees and says, "YES".

Throughout your life your fridge has been faithfully storing information.

Whenever any of your senses picked up a message that you are a good person or a loveable person, your fridge opened its door, said, "YES" and stored it away.

Of course, any time that you picked up that you were a bad person, unworthy or unlovable, your fridge just says, "YES" and stores it away.

You therefore have, a lot of stored data, and your self- image as well as your self-esteem are based on this information.

Studies show that 80% of allrepparttar 124034 input we receive as kids is negative ("don't do this", "that is bad"). Remembering that a child is like a sponge and he or she receives and believes anything that is said to him or her, there's little wonder why we end up in a society of people who's belief systems are made up of "I am not good enough", "I don't deserve", "I'll fuck it up", etc...

So, what to do? How about balancing some ofrepparttar 124035 negative information, with something positive? How about utilizing positive affirmations? I know that for many, affirmations work, whilst others just get bored with them. There is a way however, to use them with powerful results, as long as we employrepparttar 124036 power of our feelings.

But before jumping to our feelings, we need to remember a few basics: 1. Repeatrepparttar 124037 thought over and over again. You have spent years filling up your fridge with garbage. Do you really expect that a few days of positive affirmations would balance it out? 2. Use present tense. "I will earn a million next year" doesn't work. Tomorrow never comes. 3. Use positive terms. "I quit overeating" putsrepparttar 124038 weight onrepparttar 124039 overeating. Make it instead: "I eat only what my body needs"

FEELINGS It has been said: "Thoughts create and feelings bring alive." It is as if your thoughts arerepparttar 124040 plan on paper and your feelings bring it into 3-dimensional reality. If you really want something in your life, let your excitement be there. Tellrepparttar 124041 world. You deserve it.

Fear isrepparttar 124042 same energy as excitement. If you lean away from something, you get fear. If you lean towards it, you get excitement.

If you stand in front of your mirror every morning whispering shyly to yourself "I am beautiful, loveable, successful human being" it might take forever until you believe it. Instead, sing it loudly to yourself or shout it while drivingrepparttar 124043 car (making sure that your windows are closed)

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