THE MYSTERY OF PICKY EATERSWritten by Jason Katzenback
If you were to ask 100 parents why they think their children are picky eaters, chances are you would get 90 different answers. Although we know some children are picky eaters for no apparent reason, most are hard to please when it comes to food for two reasons – they are naturally fussy about tastes and textures or they have a learned behavior about food.If you have a picky eater in your house, you are NOT alone! In fact, this is a very common complaint among parents. In addition to being frustrating, parents also worry that their child is not getting appropriate nutrients needed for their growing bodies. With picky eaters, you typically see one of two things happening. First, you will find child who simply has no interest in trying anything unfamiliar and second, you have child who has no interest in trying foods he or she is familiar with, which is extremely challenging. The name given to children who refuse to try anything new to eat is “neophobic”. Interestingly, these children actually tend to have higher levels of anxiety than other children do. Although exact reason why these children do not like trying new foods is unknown, experts believe it has something to do with personality trait or perhaps just a part of that child’s normal childhood development. Now, picker eater is a little different from neophobic in that this child is not interested in eating foods that he or she is familiar with, which is caused more from life experiences. Sometimes, a child will refuse to eat foods as a way of maintaining some type of control over parent or situation. The fascinating aspect of this is that numerous studies show that generally, children who are picky eaters do not eat healthy foods and specifically lack vegetables in diet. The key to working with a picky eater is that parents should never assume they will simply “grow out of it.” While some kids do, not everyone does.
| | DINNER TABLE DRAMAWritten by Jason Katzenback
It has been a long day. Home from work, you put together a nice, healthy dinner for entire family to enjoy. Gathering family around table, you sit down to eat and within a minute, a voice pipes up, “I don’t like anything.” Encouraging, you say, “I’ve made some of your favorite foods and even put a couple new things on table that I’m sure you will like if you just try. I really think if you will take one bite, you’ll love it.” The response, “No, I don’t want to eat because I don’t like it.”If you think about way in which food is perceived by adults and children, it is very different. For example, adults often use food for comfort or to celebrate a special occasion while children view food as food – a way to make a hungry tummy stop hurting. Therefore, if you have a child who begins to show signs of being a picky eater, remember that his or her body at that particular time may not need much food. When this situation first begins, offer encouragement but never force your child to clean his or her plate. In most cases, not making a big deal is best course of action. However, after a few weeks if you find that picky eating behavior continues and even seems to be getting worse, you might need to intervene. At this time, it basically becomes a matter of teaching your child good eating habits. The problem is that many times, child has already established him or herself as a picky eater and now, is not so sure changes are needed. Keep in mind that when a child first starts ignoring food, people are usually making a big fuss. Therefore, by time appropriate changes are made, child might have figured out that he or she has some control that was not known about before. With that, teaching process becomes more of a struggle than a lesson.
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