While you’re soaring with eagles at work, things are about as low as they can get on home front. This is a quandary many people before you have had, but within situation is an opportunity to evaluate life.
Often it takes a relationship breakdown of divorce proportions to force us to stop and take stock of meaning and direction of our life.
We also know that “love” is one of pillars of our life. We also know it’s not logical to be working as hard and as long as we do, creating all money and success imaginable only to end up alone and unable to share all fruits with one you love most.
What successful career, rocky relationship situation provides you with though is an opportunity to evaluate. Let me explain.
Life is about purpose – life purpose. You, within your life purpose – above everything else, are striving for happiness and in order to help you evaluate your situation I have a few questions for you that takes you right to heart of matter.
Are you happy “with you” in your relationship? Are you happy with your partner in relationship? Do you still want relationship? Can relationship be salvaged? If so, how?
Are you using work to hide from something at home? Children; in-laws; step-children, pain of a family death; something your partner said to you months ago that hurt and you never let go of it? Are there pressures at home that could be worked out with a different strategy i.e. outside help, like coaching or counseling?