Success found in the wrong places

Written by Terry Dashner


Faith Fellowship Church…PO Box 1586…Broken Arrow, OK 74013…Pastor Terry Dashner…918/451/0270

Again inrepparttar words of Henry Petroski, “Allrepparttar 129246 success of engineering as far back in history asrepparttar 129247 pyramids and as far intorepparttar 129248 future asrepparttar 129249 wildest conceptions of mile-high skyscrapers may be imagined to have begun with a wish to achieve something without failure, where ‘without failure’ torepparttar 129250 engineer means not only to stand without falling down but also to endure with what might be called ‘structural soundness.’”

Considerrepparttar 129251 Egyptian pyramids. The pyramid shape is an extremely stable one. Maybe in time past,repparttar 129252 idea of a pyramid shape was realized when someone let a fist-full of sand drain from one’s hand torepparttar 129253 ground, forming a neat, little, pyramid shape. Thus was bornrepparttar 129254 idea of mimickingrepparttar 129255 shape,repparttar 129256 shape that resembles mountains, by building a pyramid. And certainly one could argue thatrepparttar 129257 pyramid shape is, indeed, a strong and lasting shape becauserepparttar 129258 ancient ones still stand in Egypt. Yet, inrepparttar 129259 same breath, it must be argued that it took more thanrepparttar 129260 pyramid shape to secure its longevity. It required engineering design that was, atrepparttar 129261 time, one of mostly trial and error.

This brings up an interesting point. Success, ifrepparttar 129262 story is completely told, comes not through former success but current failure. I agree with brother Petroski. We learn more about what works in engineering (and life) from failure of a structure than we do from its longevity. Petroski says, “No one wants to learn by mistakes, but we cannot learn enough from successes to go beyondrepparttar 129263 state ofrepparttar 129264 art.”

P. M. A........

Written by Gary Durkin


P.M.A.

An article by Gary Durkin © Copyright 2005 - All Rights Reserved worldwide.

P.M.A - so what is it? Some people will automatically recognise this acronym - Positive Mental Attitude.

Yadda yadda... blah... blah.... some people think, but PMA should be likened to 'dieting'.

No, I haven't gone completely insane (not quite), but one major failure that many people are guilty of, is to overlook a common theme that links both PMA and dieting.

Instead of considering a weight-loss plan / calorie controlled diet as a short-term temporary measure, it's more effective to adopt a permanent, ongoing lifestyle change. Eat better, eat more fresh fruit, vegetables, salad, less fat, sugar, and so on, exercise regularly and keep doing so, rather than Yo-Yo dieting, your results and long-term benefits are enhanced greatly.

Equally so, trying to temporarily changerepparttar way we think, feel, look at life - only to slowly revert back intorepparttar 129244 old ways, orrepparttar 129245 'comfort zone', is as effective as ordering regular fries for a couple of weeks, instead of your usual ‘supersize’ portion - inrepparttar 129246 hope of gettingrepparttar 129247 'body beautiful'!

Effective dieting comes from a lifestyle change and ensuring you stick with it. Just as it is with 'attitude'.

So how do you achieve PMA?

There's no magic solution, no wonder-pill, no secret. It's a gradual process, taken in steps, one at a time.

There are a few common ‘sayings’ that can get everyone off to a good start. “Before you lose your temper… count to ten” “Takerepparttar 129248 brake off your brain, before you put your mouth into drive”.

Those are a couple of classics that I’ve overlooked on a few occasions!

But PMA can be far more than that. It’s about belief, will-power, being positive, attitude adjustment. It makes allrepparttar 129249 difference.

One ofrepparttar 129250 biggest contributors which dictatesrepparttar 129251 success or failure of those trying to quit smoking…. is will power. Feeling positive about school, college or university examinations increasesrepparttar 129252 likelihood of improved performance.

It’s been widely documented that a solid determination to improve or recover, has been an influencing factor to many who are seriously ill or injured.

Having a Positive Mental Attitude doesn’t cure cancer, if only it did. But it certainly improves matters and helps those involved, being supportive and….. positive.

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