Are you successful? What does that word mean to you? Unlimited wealth, “toys” as far as eye can see, or family gatherings at your cottage on lake?Success is a state of mind, and I would like to help you Succeed! Below are some dynamic belief steps to follow.
S – Start believing in yourself and what you do! Starting=beginning. If you wouldn’t have taken risk and got on your bicycle for first time, would you have confidence that you do now as you mount your bike for a ride through town? This belief comes from within and turns your dreams and vision into reality!
U – Understand another's point of view. You don’t know it all, so don’t appear to. Put yourself in their shoes and listen. Have empathy.
What does other person want? What are they feeling? Block out your own feelings and voice that has a response to their statements and truly “BE” with one you are talking with. Don’t interrupt! Have you ever thought up perfect response, so witty and smart, that it burst out of your mouth, only to stop sentence coming out of other person’s mouth. You missed them and possibly sale or relationship.
Have you ever truly been understood? It is best feeling in world. When you put yourself aside to put other person first, that is true sacrifice and success.
C – Confidence isn’t a feeling, it is an action. You need to have it, even when you just don’t feel like you can!
C – Collaborate , share your successes, be vulnerable and share your mistakes. Be real! You will become a people magnet. Surround yourself with people you admire. Look for like minded people, people who have what you want, who believe as you believe! Find out how they got to where they are and then do same. Billionare Ross Perot paid millions to attract brightest to his company. Be people smart.