Struggling With Addictions

Written by Annagail Lynes


What kind of bad habits do you struggle with? Most people think that when they come to Christ that their bad habits will magically disappear. And some church people act like if you have any bad habits in your life that you must not truly be saved, but that couldn’t be further fromrepparttar truth. Christians or not, we are all people, and people make mistakes. People have bad habits. If you are anything like me, you have poured your heart out in counseling sessions with your church leaders, stood in prayer lines, repented and vowed to do better. And still found yourself giving into that temptationrepparttar 111370 next time it presented itself, leaving you asking, “What’s wrong with me?”

Nothing. There is nothing wrong with you. The very fact that you are concerned about it is a good sign. It’srepparttar 111371 people who won’t admit they have a problem that should worry.

Everyone, at one time or another, struggles with some type of bad habit or addiction. Maybe it’s shopping too much, smoking, drinking alcohol, pornography, coffee, sweets, etc. People don’t want others to know about their problems, so they hide them inrepparttar 111372 closet, hoping that no one will ever find out about their secret. When a problem is hidden inrepparttar 111373 dark, it will continue to haunt you. But once it is brought intorepparttar 111374 light, that is when you will be able to overcome it.

A bad habit or addiction is anything that robs you of your time with God, that you feel that you must hide, that hurts your health orrepparttar 111375 health of others or is againstrepparttar 111376 Word of God.

It is important that we guard what we are feedingrepparttar 111377 gates of our heart–our eyes, ears and mouth. Looking at pornographic magazines or watching R-rated movies causes those images to enter our eye gates, and once there, our minds store those images for safe keeping. Then atrepparttar 111378 most awkward moments, it will replay those images. Maybe in your dreams, when you are praising God at church or when you are kissing your girlfriend.

Perhaps you don’t watch anything objectionable. Instead your vice of choice is heavy-metal or rap music that talk about killing cops and degrading women. At first, you may just thinkrepparttar 111379 music has a nice beat, but after awhile, even though, you are not consciously listening torepparttar 111380 lyrics, those words–the ones about murder, drugs and sex–will seep into your subconscious. You will find yourself getting into trouble because you have a shorter fuse than you used to. You will blurrepparttar 111381 line between right and wrong. You won’t remember why having sex without a marriage license is sinful, why stealing and lying are immoral. All because you didn’t guard what you let through your eye and ear gates.

How do you overcomerepparttar 111382 bad habits and addictions in your life?

1. Repent. I John 1:9 says, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” If we didn’t struggle with problems in life, there would be no reason to repent. However, we do, so we must ask God to forgive us for our wrongdoings. He is a gracious God who promises to forgive us when we repent. The mistake most of us make is in hiding our sin from God. Somehow we think that we can hide it fromrepparttar 111383 One who sees all and knows all. Run to God when you slip in your recovery. Run to Him when you sin because He is on your side. He is not sitting up in Heaven, waiting to pounce on you anytime you make a mistake. That is not who He is. God is love not hate.

Making The Grade

Written by Annagail Lynes


“H ere--" I said, handing my mother my progress report as I walked into her room. I braced myself forrepparttar inevitably screaming I was sure to hear. "My teacher says you have to sign this."

My mother looked atrepparttar 111369 card, then at me. "How could you be getting a 'D' in Earth Science?"

Some students have a natural ability for academics. They receive excellent marks, yet rarely crack open their textbooks. Others have to study night and day to getrepparttar 111370 same marks. It’s not that some students are smart, and others are dumb. It is a matter of tapping into what study methods work for each student.

Here are seven ways you can study more effectively and improve your grades:

Track Assignments

The first step is to keep track of assignments. Some loose-leaf binders come with school-year or all-year calendars. If you don’t find one you like, consider buying a teachers' planning calendar from an office supply store. It can be inserted intorepparttar 111371 front of your binders and used to record assignments. Your teachers may provide you with assignment sheets. These sheets can be slipped in front ofrepparttar 111372 calendar. The dayrepparttar 111373 assignments and tests are announced, work out a study schedule.

Commit To A Regular Time And Place For Homework

You should study every day to continue to make progress. Homework time doesn't have to be a hassle if you are flexible with your schedule. Some students like to start their homework right after school. With their homework finished, they are free to go out or watch television. Other students prefer to relax first, then do their homework with a fresh perspective. Once you have committed to a homework time, stick to it.

Where you study is as important as setting a regular study time. You may enjoy studying at your bedroom desk or lying onrepparttar 111374 floor inrepparttar 111375 living room. No matter where you study,repparttar 111376 environment should be noise-free and well-lighted. You should be able to spread out your books and papers. Also make sure you have allrepparttar 111377 supplies you need within your reach.

Be Conscientious

Every night make sure your homework is done, is correct and is orderly. Neat homework and projects earn higher grades. Inrepparttar 111378 business world, if you make a sloppy presentation, you will loserepparttar 111379 client's account. Also turn your homework in on time.

Afterrepparttar 111380 test and assignments are handed back, sit down with them and see where you made mistakes. Why wererepparttar 111381 errors made and how could you prevent similar errors inrepparttar 111382 future? Write notes onrepparttar 111383 assignments and tests. Make a file forrepparttar 111384 test and notes, for cumulative tests later.

Use Memorization Techniques

In order to remember lists, try inventing a combination of letters (an acronym). Each letter will give you a clue to an idea you need to remember. For example, BRASS is an acronym for how to shoot a rifle--Breath, Relax, Aim, Sight, Squeeze. You could also make up a sentence whererepparttar 111385 first letter of each word is a hint to what you need to recall. For instance, Dumb Martians Just Sit Nearby Eating Tender Noodles isrepparttar 111386 phrase to rememberrepparttar 111387 order ofrepparttar 111388 Eight Is Enough children--David, Mary, Joanie, Susan, Nancy, Elizabeth, Tommy, Nicholas.

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