Any time you spend around that toxic dragon , you are adding another cup full of misery to your life. You must accept that toxic person you are with will not change, does not want to change, and does not want you to change. The toxic people want to keep poisoning you with their behavior and feel that they have every right to do so. Toxic people roam around freely and openly because they can. They take our energy, strength, love, and our precious time on this earth. This goes on and on and slowly before we know it, our lives are used up,our hearts and souls are ruined, and dragon keeps on going like energizer bunny. This is a truth that each of us needs to understand. Some people cannot be around each other, be together, or even mix without harmful effects. There are definite mismatches that were never meant to be and certainly were not meant to continue. Coming to grips with fact that you must leave a toxic relationship is one of most difficult things you will ever do. It is a life changing experience and you have to have strength to do it.

Get Prepared To Slay The Dragon By Doing These Simple tasks: Sit down with a friend, co worker, a neighbor, or a family member and review what is going on in toxic relationship. You need someone who can help you put whole situation in perspective. Unfortunately we may be so close we cannot see forest through trees. Maybe we have started to think all of this is our fault. (It isn't.) Make a list of what has been going on, things that have been said or done which have left you feeling destroyed. Talk about how that toxic person makes you feel and how so far you have felt powerless to change things.

Who Is Some Who Loves You?

1. Someone who sees best in you.

If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.

2. Someone who gives you benefit of doubt.

There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is person who is more valuable to you than gold.

3. Someone who watches over you.

You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?

4. Someone to watch you back.

You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.

5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.

You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On other hand there are people who just let you know that only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in dumper and blew it, stay close to one who knows that person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.

6. The person who gives you advice from heart, not from head.