Ending a relationship is never easy. When you feel you must end a relationship most people find it challenging as they have feelings towards their partner and do not wish to hurt them. More often than not, breaking up is as hard on
person ending relationship as it is on person being broken up with. Realize that a person is breaking up has nothing to do with caring about another person. Caring about somebody and wanting a relationship are not same.
The majority of people on this planet do not like to hurt others, especially somebody they have been close to. Guilt has been used more often than not to keep relationships together. Fight this urge and believe in yourself.! When you allow guilt as a way to stop a break up you not only cheat yourself out of having a good and true relationship, you’ll foster resentment towards other person which could lead to greater pain and heart ache in future. Why would you want to be with somebody who makes you feel bad by allowing you to feel guilty? Respect yourself!!.
A man should exit gracefully by planning break up, to minimize grief caused to his partner
Don’t just ignore her hoping she will notice and go away. You might have learned a little bit about push /pull as a term we use in seduction. That only tends to bring somebody in closer. Which is exact opposite of what you want.
. The I think you're a great girl and I don't deserve you line will seem ok to her at first, but later on she will start to resent that. She could also go into how you DO deserve her and try to convince you.
Honesty really is best policy. Treating relationship, and person, with respect and dignity helps soften blow.
When you break up, Do it in person. Show some integrity and sincerity to tell her that relationship isn't’t going anywhere. In our workshops we teach how verbal communication is only 7% of total communication between people. If she also sees closed off body language it will be easier for closure for her eventually.
