Sharing is Healing

Written by David Nelmes


David NelmesWhatever it is that you desire for yourself, share that thing with your fellow man and then you shall have it in greater measure as well. God creates by sharing because this isrepparttar only way that true change can occur. God created us by sharing himself. It's impossible to create something from nothing, so God shared a part of himself and created us. Just like an idea can be shared and grows larger as it spreads acrossrepparttar 126814 world, so does God extend himself by sharing. Learning to share isrepparttar 126815 one way in which we can have true blessings in our lives.

Sharing and giving are notrepparttar 126816 same thing. With sharing, you have not lost anything because whatever you share is still a part of you, as we are still a part of God. Sharing occurs strictly on a spiritual level and does not revolve around physical things, but physical effects may be apparent fromrepparttar 126817 sharing. When you give something, there is a sense that you have lost something and somebody else has gained something. This is not a spiritual action and therefore will not bringrepparttar 126818 same blessings as sharing.

Whatever it is that you desire for yourself, share that thing with your fellow man and then you shall have it in greater measure as well. Learning to share is<IMG height=12 src= one way in which we can have true blessings in our lives." ALIGN=RIGHT HSPACE=10 VSPACE=10 GALLERYIMG="no" CLASS="iborder1">For example, when Jesus fedrepparttar 126820 thousands, on several occasions, he could have givenrepparttar 126821 crowdrepparttar 126822 fishes and bread, but then they would have only what was given them, and all there was to give is whatever is already physically here. The crowd would have received just a few fishes and a few loaves. Instead, Jesus saw pastrepparttar 126823 physical and Shared his desire thatrepparttar 126824 crowd be fed, andrepparttar 126825 fish and loaves were multiplied as a result of his desire to share. When all was done, everyone had eaten and there was more left over than they had started with.

Since most of us consider money and possessions to be atrepparttar 126826 heart of most needs, let's follow through by taking a look atrepparttar 126827 difference between giving something or sharing something...

When you give a donation, you might be aware that you have less than before. You might be aware of tax benefits. You might believe that God requires something of you...that somehow God is lacking in ability to take care of something himself. You might be aware of a sense of sacrifice. You might be aware that your donation is required...or else.

When you share a donation, you are aware that everything you have is from God and is therefore everyone's to begin with, so it never leaves you because you never considered it just yours to begin with. You are aware thatrepparttar 126828 donation will help somebody with a perceived lack, to maintain themselves a bit longer, while always knowing you were not required in any way to provide help since God is not withoutrepparttar 126829 means to provide in any way he desires. You are not aware of any loss or sense of sacrifice. What was never only yours will not be missed nor required back. You are aware that what you share will come back to you in some way, because that is how sharing works, but sharing cannot occur ifrepparttar 126830 motivation is just to get back.

The physical world is just an effect ofrepparttar 126831 actions that occur inrepparttar 126832 spiritual world. There is no lack in Gods Kingdom, but there is lack perceived here. Learning to be open to and sharerepparttar 126833 spiritual in this world, opensrepparttar 126834 doors for this world to change and be blessed. God is not waiting for us to deserve blessing or be worthy of healing. He has already given all of that to us. He is just waiting for us to accept what is already there. We have only to allow these blessings to occur and they will.

Have I implied that we are purposely not allowing ourselves to be blessed? Yes I have and it's true. God is not holding anything back and so if there is a need you have in your life, no matter how large or how small, it's because you have not allowed God to take control of some part of your life. God's not waiting for you to deserverepparttar 126835 blessing, nor is there a devil who hasrepparttar 126836 power to hold back what God would give to you. These concepts only keep you from uncoveringrepparttar 126837 truth that you arerepparttar 126838 only source of allrepparttar 126839 problems in your life. Nobody else and nothing else isrepparttar 126840 problem, and as long as you look anywhere but inside forrepparttar 126841 answer, you will not findrepparttar 126842 answer, because it is simply not there.

God does not have favorites, nor is he impressed with deeds. He can't be bargained with or be part of a compromise for things to come. God is not like us and does not think onrepparttar 126843 very low and self-centered levels man does. Since he has already given us everything, everyone isrepparttar 126844 favorite, everything is special, and there is nothing to ask for, nothing to bargain about and nothing to earn. The whole concept that we have to earn something from God, so that we might deserverepparttar 126845 blessing, is what is keepingrepparttar 126846 blessing away. This concept implies we are not worthy and as long as we believe it, we hold backrepparttar 126847 blessings God has given us. Jesus said that if we seek God first in all things spiritual, all things physical will be attended to. This is not an act of pleasing God, it is an act of being open to what God so very much desires to share with you. All that he has is yours. All peace...all love...all perfection...all that which was created perfect and whole and without need...all these things are what are already there for us. We just have to accept that we are worthy of them or we will not see them or accept them.

The Skeletons in our Closet

Written by David Nelmes


David Nelmes You get what you ask for. You really do get what you asked for...problem is, we often have no idea what it is that we were really asking for and so when we get it, we are often confused, upset and quite miserable.

I remember specific moments long ago when I would draw close to God and within a short period of time, everything seemed to be against me. More problems appeared to arise than to go away. More arguments occurred and I could only imagine, at that time, that it wasrepparttar devil trying to put a wedge between myself and God. I would fight to some degree, but sooner or later, I would fail and feel condemned and guilty and I would eventually distance myself from God. Having done that...things often improved...to some degree at least.

The first step to receiving real help is in surrendering<IMG height=12 src= concept that you can somehow do this on your own, or that there is something you must do to fix it. The greatest of all things to do is to be willing to change." ALIGN=RIGHT HSPACE=10 VSPACE=10 GALLERYIMG="no" CLASS="iborder1">The thing that always upset me was how God could let such bad things occur when I was trying so hard to improve my life. I could only imagine a Zeus-like God, enjoying himself as I battled withrepparttar 126814 impossible wagers he and satan had made with my life. I could only imagine thatrepparttar 126815 Old Testament version of an angry, jealous, bitter and vengeful God was true. Where was Jesus anyway? I kind of thought his purpose was to put God in a half-nelson for a few thousand years so that God would stop being so cruel torepparttar 126816 people on earth.

Have you been in that place where you feel hopeless after having cried out? Have you quit trying some time afterwards because things appeared too difficult to pursue? Are you tired of not getting past your problems? Would you like to actually succeed at improving your life?

When you ask God to intervene in your life, consider firstrepparttar 126817 truth in that you really don't have to ask. He already wants so much to be invited into your life and he's not waiting to be asked...he's waiting to be allowed. Your free will brings him in or moves him out. By asking, you are really just opening yourself and inviting him in. The act of asking is really more an action of you droppingrepparttar 126818 barriers that are keeping him out.

No matter what you ask God for, help with finances, help with relationships, help with an illness...no matter what...the answer is alwaysrepparttar 126819 same...."That is not your real problem. While you remain open to me and willing to change, I will help you with your real problem and then all these other problems will go away."

The problem with our requests is that we are not seeing things clearly enough in this world to know whatrepparttar 126820 best things to ask for are. It's like we are driving down a wintery highway at night, window all covered with ice, andrepparttar 126821 snow is falling fast and furious. The fear of this experience can grip our hearts and makerepparttar 126822 trip a terrible one. This is how our lives really are. We are totally blinded about what is really around us and we are only seeing a few inches ahead at any time, and even then, it's foggy, stormy and very fearful.

Onrepparttar 126823 other hand, God is aboverepparttar 126824 storm andrepparttar 126825 Holy Spirit sees things exactly as they are and he knows exactly what thing is best to occur to get you throughrepparttar 126826 storm. His role is to do everything and anything that will draw you towardsrepparttar 126827 light. He knows your heart, he knows what you are capable of and he knows exactly how to help you.

The first step to receiving real help is in surrenderingrepparttar 126828 concept that you can somehow do this on your own, or that there is something you must do to fix it. The greatest of all things is to just be willing to change. Be willing to let God heal your mind so that you will see and experience things differently than you had before.

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