You're close, really close, to making a sale. Your potential client is in
market for your product or service and you've had a couple of good meetings.Based on his most recent e-mail, "Everything looks good -- I'll get back to you so we can move this forward"--everything points to a probable sale. You feel so relaxed, happy, and hopeful. Then a couple of days go by with no phone call or e-mail. You tell yourself, "He's probably busy. I know he'll get in touch tomorrow." But tomorrow comes and goes with no word.
You start to panic. Your self-talk turns negative: "I can't believe this...This is really starting to hurt...He let me believe it was a sure thing...I trusted him...now he's disappeared on me, and I was counting on this sale..." The relaxed, happy feeling is gone. You've fallen victim to "hopeium " again.
Have you been in this situation before?
Of course you have--we all have, and it's painful. So, can you keep from getting dropped? Yes--With
new mindset, you can abandon
salesperson role and come from a place of integrity that stems directly from your personal brand that doesn't compromise your authentic self. This opens communication with your potential clients so you can learn
truth about their situation--and that's what you always want.
These suggestions will help:
* Don't assume
sale. Potential clients are used to
traditional buyer-seller relationship, so they may decide not to tell you things that might make them vulnerable to you. Until you're sure you know
complete truth, you can never assume
sale.
* Keep making it easy for potential clients to tell you their truth. Toward
end of your conversation, ask, "Do you have any more questions?" If potential clients say no, follow up with
100-percent-final truth-gathering question: "Now, are you 100 percent sure that there's nothing else that I can do on my end to make you feel more comfortable with this situation?" You'll be amazed how often people then say, "Well, actually, there is one more issue..." And it's at that point that you really start to hear their truth.
* Call back to get
truth, not close
sale. Most potential clients who suddenly "disappear" will be expecting you chase them down by calling them and saying, "Hi, I was just wondering where things are at?" Instead, eliminate all sales pressure by telling them that you're okay with their decision not to move forward, based on their not having called you back. In other words, take a step backward. Most of
time, it'll open
door to a new level of open, trusting communication.