This quiz is based on key areas of communication and intimacy in relationships. The easiest way to take
quiz is to print it, so that you can circle your responses and add up results. Use scale below to gauge health of your relationship. The questions are designed to assess likelihood of your relationship being a success in long term. Take results seriously, but realize that no quiz can take into account everything that may important to you. Please do not feel completely discouraged if you don't score well. Instead, use what you learn from questions, and let results motivate you to identify patterns of negativity and areas needing improvement.
Please answer following questions using 3-point scale provided. Answer according to how often experience occurs in your relationship to either you or your partner. For more honest results, take test alone before comparing results.
1 = Never 2 = Sometimes 3 = Always
1 2 3We speak freely to each other and don't hold back feelings to avoid conflict.
1 2 3We show each other respect even when we argue.
1 2 3We settle disagreements by finding common ground and end with compromise.
1 2 3We are equal partners in relationship.
1 2 3We have good talks. We share our feelings and opinions.
1 2 3We have girls/guys night out without jealousy becoming an issue.
1 2 3When we settle an argument, it stays settled and does not become a recurring problem.
1 2 3We can joke around with each other without one of us taking it wrong way or getting upset.
1 2 3 We respect each other's opinions, feelings, and beliefs. We see eye-to-eye on most things.
1 2 3We like each other's choices in friends.
1 2 3We have good relationships with each other's families.
