Selecting just right gift is an important way to say you care, and it’s not so difficult as it might appear.

Some people give up before they really get started considering what to buy, because historically their efforts have been frustrating. So dad gets a shirt, a tie, socks, or maybe a book, because they're obvious choices and he hasn't complained about those gifts in past.

But it's rare dad that will even hint that gift is not needed or desired. Most will make something of a fuss over gift and express copious amounts of gratitude. But did he really want another shirt? Maybe. And maybe he even liked style and color. Or maybe he is resigned to getting same range of items for father's day, year after year. Low expectations can temper disappointment.

So who will break cycle of dull, predictable repetition? Looks like it will have to be you! And if you're ready to do so, please realize that you're not taking on a giant challenge. In reality, gift buying for dad has never been easier. Online shopping is safe and secure, fast, and there are enough options to suit any need, interest or taste.

And in those three words -- need, interest, taste -- lies key to your choice, along with always-relevant term, budget. Get those four concepts aligned and you can't go wrong. Three out of four wouldn't be awful either, so long as taste is included in mix.

DAD'S NEEDS

So let's be clear: if a shirt is right gift for dad, then a shirt it should be. But before making any decision, consider these points. First, unless dad relies on you to stock his wardrobe, then clothing should be only one of many options in equation. Second, if you bought clothing more often than not in previous few years it could be time for a change.

So spend a few minutes reflecting on your purchase history. Have you fallen into a rut? Have you been too predictable?

Then consider his range of needs. If you don't have knowledge to do that, get some help from other family members or friends. If he has no needs, then you will have to go with these other three concepts.

DAD'S INTERESTS

Here are three issues that keep coming up for parents, and an explanation of how parents can often solve their own problems.

Problem #1: My kids don’t listen to me

To expect that kids will listen to you perfectly all time is an irrational thought. Kids are in a very different place than adults are in terms of their ability to listen and attend to things. Kids will often need you to repeat things a number of times in a patient, pleasant tone. And yes, your job is to be very patient with them.

It is often “parental” tone of parents’ voices that is part of problem with kids not listening. After all, who wants to be lectured about what to do all day? If things still don’t work, take action—kids will respond to action much better than they will to words.

Problem #2: My kids aren’t respectful—they talk back and argue too much

One of problems with not having obedient kids anymore is that kids feel more freedom to speak their mind. This can be irritating, but it’s far better than obedient kids that just do what they’re told.