5 Secrets Your Guy Doesnít Want You to Know
1.He Only Pretends Not to Listen.
He heard what you said. Heís just not interested in hearing it at moment. Donít try to give your man instructions or talk about your feelings when heís watching TV (especially sports), eating, reading, or has just come home from work. He will only be half listening. His mind is on other things like: will his team win, his day at work, how hungry he is, etc. He can only pay attention to one thing at a time. If he lets you think that he is giving you his full attention, and then you will want to talk to him at these inappropriate moments all time. If he gives you a detailed response, youíll just continue to talk. If he completely ignores you, youíll get mad. If he pretends that he is listening, you will be content and walk away.
2.He Does Look at Other Women.
Not because he wants to cheat, but because men are visually stimulated. Getting mad at him for looking is just going to make him sneak a peek. Hey, itís just a passing glance. Itís not like we donít check guys out too!
3.He Needs Time Away From You.
Men need time to reflect, socialize and just get away from it all. Men like time to regroup. It doesnít mean that they donít want to be with us, it is just an escape to appreciate what they have at home. So lighten up, while heís out of house, take kids out or get a babysitter and go something you enjoy.
4.He Doesnít Feel Like Being Bothered Sometimes
Youíve probably asked him to do something several times, but yet he still doesnít do it in a timely manner. In frustration, you do it yourself. What is he thinking, ďThank Goodness!Ē Men do things at their own pace. You can ask your man to take out trash and 3 hours later, itís still there. Technically, he still has time to take out trash. In his mind, trash isnít going anywhere anytime soon, and if you do it yourself, that just makes it better for him.
5.He Really Enjoys Gossip
If your man overhears you gossiping on phone, heíll probably shake his head in disapproval. However, if he talks about Joe and Margaret, his co workers who are having an affair, itís not gossip. Actually men enjoy to gossip. They just have a different name for it ďCommenting.Ē
6.Yes, He Was Thinking About Sex
Your man has a far away look in his eyes. He seems distant. He was thinking about sex. He canít help it, he thinks about it several times a day. Wouldnít you prefer that he thinks about it several times a day rather than having sex several times a day?