Scorpio's Child

Written by Skye Thomas


Scorpios get a lot of bad press. They're vindictive, mean, and obsessed with sex. That's not really fair. Scorpio rulesrepparttar house of sharing. They arerepparttar 110747 stewards of sharing money, resources, love, and yes sharing each other's bodies. It is their deepest most spiritual need to be completely connected, loved, and sharing fromrepparttar 110748 depth of their soul. It's from this place that they are so easily hurt. Wounded Scorpios are a force to be reckoned with and yes, they're famously ruthless and cruel. How do you keep your own Scorpio child from becoming obsessive and mean?

Love them. Yes, all children need to be loved, but Scorpio children need to be loved at such a deep personal connected level. The worse thing you can do to a Scorpio child is to ignore them. They feel emotionally abandoned and never really learn to trust anyone again. You absolutely must make sure that your Scorpio child knows that you love them. Touch them with purpose. They need parents that are fully present paying attention to them. They are high maintenance children until they are convinced that they are loved unconditionally, then they become extremely self-reliant. They need to hear you tell them that you recognize them asrepparttar 110749 incredible souls that they are. They need to be taken seriously. Don't laugh offrepparttar 110750 dreams of a Scorpio child. You will crush their spirits and once they're crushed, they're cursed. Hug them with strength. Love them with your entire being. Really listen to them when they talk to you. They are incredibly wise old souls fromrepparttar 110751 day they are born. They probably know you better then you know yourself. Acknowledge them and their incredible minds.

Share with them. They must believe atrepparttar 110752 very deepest core of their being that it's safe to share their hearts. They feel abandoned if you only offer them superficial conversation and light fluffy family dynamics. They needrepparttar 110753 meat and potatoes kind of parenting. Talk to them openly. Tell them your thoughts. Role model open communications and how beneficial it is when trying to deeply connect with another. Scorpios only become sneaking and secretive as a way of self-protection. Show them that by openly sharing one's thoughts, feelings, and love that real connection is achieved. They hunger for that deep connection. Show them positive ways to get it.

Discipline them. Scorpios are extremely strong willed and powerful by nature. They know exactly who they are and that most people don't haverepparttar 110754 strength, knowledge, nor stamina to match their own. They have a tendency to believe that they were born with a crown on their heads and that they don't have to followrepparttar 110755 rules that other people follow. They will laugh and mock you as you lay downrepparttar 110756 rules. You have to be strong and firm while teaching Scorpios that yes,repparttar 110757 rules do apply to them too. If you are a dictator in your parenting style, they will imitate you and become dictator like also. If you cave in to their charm and their constant attempts at persuasion then they will use charm and persuasion to get their way in life. If you beat them into submission, they will dorepparttar 110758 same. They have to be disciplined in a way that is strong, meaningful, and firm. They have to know without a doubt that you love them with all your heart and that they still have to followrepparttar 110759 rules. They have to learnrepparttar 110760 basic lesson that there are repercussions for making bad choices. If you don't teach them, they will believe that they are aboverepparttar 110761 law.

4 Tips for Taking Great Baby Pictures - Even If You're Not a Professional

Written by Alexis Dawes


When my daughter Layla was born I had a hard time puttingrepparttar camera down. And apparently I wasn'trepparttar 110746 only one. The cashier atrepparttar 110747 photo developing shop told me that new parents comprised a fairly sizable chunk of their business.

We can't help it! Babies are such beautiful creatures that you want to capture every new movement and every fleeting smile that comes along. (Even if that smile is attached to a smelly gas bubble!)

Howeverrepparttar 110748 problem many parents have is that their lack of good photography skills can translate into pictures that are too dark, too bright, blurry, out of focus, uncentered, and so on. Perhaps this describes you.

If so, don't sweat it. These problems are easily fixable. An album full of mishaps can quickly be transformed by following these 4 tips...

1) When taking pictures of babies lying on their backs, stand directly over them and shoot straight down.

I used to take a solid color baby blanket and place it onrepparttar 110749 floor in a bright, sun filled room. When I was ready to take a picture I would put Layla onrepparttar 110750 blanket, and adjust it around her, making sure not to put her directly inrepparttar 110751 sunlight. Then I'd get on my knees right over her, aim straight down and snap away.

This technique will allow you to centerrepparttar 110752 camera properly and you'll get some great close-up shots. The natural sunlight will often give you just enough light so your picture isn't too dark or too bright.

2) Capture a range of emotions.

Smiling babies are cute. But so are crying babies and pouting babies and messy babies and sleeping babies.

Be sure to take pictures of your little one in all phases of his or her emotion filled life. You'll be amazed at how truly beautiful they are in non-traditional picture taking situations.

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