Dads have to work harder than ever to provide for their families, and may be too tired to give as much quality time to their family that they would love to give. In Oliver Sacks’ book, The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat,
author tells a story about a brain injured man who perceives his wife as a hat. Is it really any surprise that he didn’t see her as a race car, but as a comfortable hat that he enjoyed wearing?Do you make
same mistake with your husband or Dad? Do you tend to interact with him only when you need money? Has he become nothing but a “wallet” to you?
This Fathers Day, make
time to improve your relationship and show him that you love him for all that he means to you, whether he’s your Dad or
father of your children.
It’s too easy to fall into narrow roles in a family, and Dad certainly can add to
impression that he’s only there as a meal ticket. But with a little bit of effort, you can change this around. He may
type of father who generously gives to his family, but he still needs your acknowledgement that you care about him and who he is aside from being your father or husband.
Dads are
foundation of a family, but can wind up feeling like a door mat instead.
Use Fathers Day as a kickoff for celebrating him, and follow up frequently with small expressions of appreciation. Dad will be so surprised to be seen in a new light and know that when you approach him with a smile, it’s not only for a handout.
Fathers Day gift ideas for wives
Show your husband (and your family) how much you care about Dad as a man and not only as
father of your children. You’re both so busy shuffling work and family life, you may have let
“man and wife” part fall too low on
radar screen.
- Surprise him with plans for a romantic night or weekend getaway. No shopping planned, this is just about you and him celebrating your relationship.