How Can We Help Children Learn about Character? Children learn about strong character when parents and other adults in their daily lives
· set a good example through their own behavior and actions,
· set and communicate high standards and clear expectations,
· coach them on how to be responsible and kind, and
· use literature to reinforce values of strong character.
Set a Good Example
We are always teaching our children something by our words and our actions.
They learn from seeing. They learn from hearing and from overhearing. They learn from us, from each other, from other adults in community and by themselves.
Children share values of their parents about most important things in life. Our priorities and principles and our examples of good behavior can teach our children to take high road when other roads look tempting.
Remember that children do not learn values that make up strong character simply by being told about them. They learn by seeing people around them act on and uphold those values in their daily lives.
In our daily lives, we can show our children that we respect others. We can show them our compassion and concern when others are suffering, and our own self-discipline, courage and honesty as we make difficult decisions.