Creating What You Want Out Of Life The first step in creating what you want in life is to look truthfully at where you are now and how you got there. This is not done so you can
experience blame or pain but to evaluate where you are and where you
want to go.
If you start to blame yourself or get into self pity or I should have's
this experience is not valuable. However, since you were doing what you
knew to do at that time blame becomes meaningless. So take your Higher
Power along on this journey and just sit back and view it like you were
viewing a movie or someone elses life. How would you critique
players in this movie? If they were a friend of yours what advise would
you give them? Take a good look and know that what you find is just a
lesson or if you prefer a challenge to do better next time since now
you have more information to make a better decision.
Taking responsiblity for where you are now lays no blame it simply gives you information to make future decisions that will create
life you want to create in
future.
Many people are drifters in life. They just live day to day and don't
think about
future. So if you want different results you must
decide what you want and act differently.
What we dwell on grows so if we are just sitting around with a bunch of
regrets and troubles and all we do is think about them they grow. But
so do thoughts of creating something new. Our unconscious mind creates
the thing we have meditiated on. If we are full of fear we will draw
the thing we fear to us. So decide where you want to go and start
toward that goal and it will happen for you.
It is important to look into your heart and ask yourself is this
something I really want or am I just trying to please someone else. If
it is not something you really want to do then
subconscious will
help you by supplying missed opportunities, you will oversleep, miss a
plane, insult a contact. So look into your heart and ask yourself is
this really my goal or someone elses goal for me. Why do I want this to
happen? Example I want a million dollars is your goal. Ask yourself
what this million dollars represents to you. A bigger house, a fancier
car, more time at home, vacations. So maybe it is not a million dollars
you want maybe it is a new home. Instead of setting a money goal set a