Reflecting on the History of Women

Written by Stella Ramsaroop


I’ve made a conscience effort to truly contemplate and studyrepparttar story of women this month since it is nationally recognized as Women’s History Month. I expanded my studies beyond justrepparttar 130095 recent feminist history, which in my opinion is a definite highlight of our history to this point, to include our history sincerepparttar 130096 start of written record.

However, this was not as easy as it would seem sincerepparttar 130097 vast majority of surviving records are his-story and are very short onrepparttar 130098 details of her-story. In an attempt to keep women “in their place,” those who have followedrepparttar 130099 Judeo-Christian religions destroyed most records ofrepparttar 130100 significance of women in early history. This is clearly seen inrepparttar 130101 Bible when numerous timesrepparttar 130102 Jews are told to “completely destroyrepparttar 130103 nations” who worshiped these other gods, of which many were actually goddesses.

It’s significant, I think, that at one point in history females sharedrepparttar 130104 title of divinity with males – and at times reigned asrepparttar 130105 sole divinity. This part of our history shows woman in all her glory, not asrepparttar 130106 fallen creature ofrepparttar 130107 Bible who must forever submit to a subservient position torepparttar 130108 man because she supposedly ate a forbidden fruit and coerced him to dorepparttar 130109 same.

It’s timerepparttar 130110 truth was known. Notrepparttar 130111 presupposed “truth” garnered from what we have always been told is reality. That reality is severely lacking inrepparttar 130112 other half ofrepparttar 130113 story. We see reality as we have always been taught to see it. If someone teaches me from young that a certain color is blue, and subsequently others then reinforce that teaching in my family, community, church, government, school, etc. – then I will believerepparttar 130114 color is actually blue.

But what if they are all wrong? What if blue is really yellow but no one wants to challengerepparttar 130115 errant teaching becauserepparttar 130116 one who said it was blue inrepparttar 130117 first place claimed to be speaking on behalf of God? Inrepparttar 130118 end though, just because everyone believes this color to blue does not make it indeed blue. In fact, it is still yellow.

That is exactly what has happened in feminine history. Only this teaching has gone so long without being challenged, for fear of being ostracized or even at times killed, that it is now accepted as truth. Inrepparttar 130119 processrepparttar 130120 real truth has been lost.

Wanted: Satisfaction!

Written by Patrice Fagnant-MacArthur


"Newsweek" recently published an article on "Mommy Madness." (Feb. 21, 2005) Judith Warner writes of "the push to be perfect," thatrepparttar type of hands-on mothering society expects of women today is "utterly incompatible with any kind of outside work, or friendship, or life." Jeff Opdyke, who writesrepparttar 130093 "Love & Money" column inrepparttar 130094 Wall Street Journal recently moved with his family from New Jersey to Louisiana so that his wife Amy could take a new full-time managerial position (she had previously worked part-time). Overrepparttar 130095 course of three columns, he wrote ofrepparttar 130096 difficult tollrepparttar 130097 move andrepparttar 130098 change in roles had taken on him, his wife, and their eight-year-old son. When it was Amy's turn to speak, she told of feeling overwhelmed and struggling to balance her high-pressure job with a busy family. Life just wasn't working as she had pictured it would.

Yes, motherhood is hard, but mothers are notrepparttar 130099 only women who suffer from a chronic case of dissatisfaction. Society is somehow always telling women that we should be doing something or being someone other than who we are right now. If we are single, people ask when we are going to get married. If we are married, people ask when we are going to have children. If we have children and go to work, we should be at home. If we have children and stay home, people wonder why we are "wasting" our education. If we are young, we should look older. If we are getting along in years, we should frantically chase that fountain of youth, whether it comes in a bottle, a pill, orrepparttar 130100 operating room. We should be thinner, prettier, and more successful. We have internalized these messages to such a degree that our loudest critic just may berepparttar 130101 voice inside our own heads! We try so hard to measure up to some ideal vision of whom we should be and feel defeated when we don't meet that perfected version of ourselves.

So, then, how do we stoprepparttar 130102 cycle? How do we stop defining ourselves by whatrepparttar 130103 world expects us to be, and instead focus onrepparttar 130104 life God intended for us? First, we must embracerepparttar 130105 idea that our worth comes from God, not from our personal achievements or our possessions. God shaped us in our mother's womb. He knows us and loves us for who we are and where we are right now. Yes, we may be a little rough aroundrepparttar 130106 edges, but as long as we keep trying to live each day according to God's will, we are working at making those edges smooth. The old adage that "God isn't finished with me yet" has a great deal of truth to it. We are all works in progress.

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