Reflect Upon Your Harvest at Thanksgiving

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach


I don't know about you, but at this time of year I always think of work. It’s harvest time. Because ofrepparttar years I spent inrepparttar 122978 MidWest, I was around people who were harvesting produce, bringing inrepparttar 122979 crop forrepparttar 122980 year. The quirks of nature notwithstanding, they would be reaping what they had sown. The result of their work was visible, and commensurate torepparttar 122981 amount of effort and care they had put into it. They also had an ending. The crop that had been planted was now being harvested. Then it would all begin again.

We do not all have work like this. My musings startedrepparttar 122982 first of October this year, as I volunteered a lot of time working atrepparttar 122983 church's pumpkin patch, which raises $50,000 each year for local charities.

Most ofrepparttar 122984 time I just sold pumpkins, but two Saturdays we unloaded huge trucks of pumpkins hauled in from a Navajo pumpkin farm in another state. We formed a chain of humans and passedrepparttar 122985 pumpkins downrepparttar 122986 line to eventually be arranged onrepparttar 122987 church lawn.

On one side of me were 2 parolees doing community service time. They talked about how much better this job was thanrepparttar 122988 one they’d done earlier, and how nice it was to be out inrepparttar 122989 sunshine. Both of them expected to be “out” by Christmas. I didn’t ask them what they were “in” for.

Onrepparttar 122990 other side of me were teenagers fromrepparttar 122991 youth choir who complained a lot about how hard it was and had to be reminded to pay attention. I'm sure they couldn't imagine working at anything for 8 hours in a row, especially something so, like, boring, dude.

The pumpkins came downrepparttar 122992 line in various sizes and shapes, shiny and wet, some with dirt on them. It was very primal.

I wondered ifrepparttar 122993 Navajos onrepparttar 122994 other end ofrepparttar 122995 process had formed a line to pitch them intorepparttar 122996 truck. And if they took pride in their work. If they even sawrepparttar 122997 marvel ofrepparttar 122998 pumpkins any more.

One time there was a middle-aged woman standing next to me. “You’re a good worker,” she said. “You don’t complain.” If only she knew how much I was enjoying myself. “I was raised withrepparttar 122999 work ethic,” I said. It’s stood me in good stead. Having been taught that work was work and play was play somehow frees me fromrepparttar 123000 “complaining” side and allows me to enjoy work. Most ofrepparttar 123001 time anyway. Asrepparttar 123002 pumpkins passed by us we noted you couldn't tell how much one would weigh by looking. There were some surprises. It’srepparttar 123003 density. Such different shapes, too. “Squash” someone would yell and down would come a pumpkin that didn’t know it was a pumpkin. Sometimes nature errs. What isrepparttar 123004 line between “pumpkin” and “squash” anyway? One orrepparttar 123005 other must have been a mutant at some time. How exciting to discover one. There’s no such thing as a mistake, I’m reminded. Twice a "perfect" pumpkin came downrepparttar 123006 line and work slowed as each person paused to admire it. No one reprimanded, "Move it along." We understood our mutual need to appreciate perfection when it comes our way. Once in a lifetime … twice onrepparttar 123007 pumpkin line … life is sweet indeed. We haverepparttar 123008 archetype ofrepparttar 123009 perfect pumpkin, andrepparttar 123010 perfect woman, andrepparttar 123011 perfect love affair, andrepparttar 123012 perfect job. (Hope you've had yours!)

I Can - unlish your inner drive

Written by Nilesh Gore


|| I Can – The Capability ||

By Nilesh Gore : ng411002@rediffmail.com

It is a normal thing for human mind is to get confused about different things in life. Here we concentrate onrepparttar confusion between ‘I Can’ and I Can’t thinking. But first of all we must know why this confusion begins at all. It begins because most of us creates a painful mental experience, without experiencing it in reality , by deviated imagination or self talk. When imagination or self-talk is negative, disabling and weakeningrepparttar 122977 results inrepparttar 122978 beginning of “I can’t” belief, which generates feeling of hopelessness and helplessness. The “I can’t” thinking is self destructive and commonly held by most of us. So before you say “I can’t” …. Say: “I’ll try and then I’ll give my level best.” And Nowrepparttar 122979 question arises “How to do so ?” well, By planning and taking action now think rationally.

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