Rebuilding Oneself ... the Universe's Basic Training

Written by Edward B. Toupin


I remember Air Force Basic Training. My Training Instructor not only wanted to teach merepparttar military way, but he also wanted to break me down so that he could rebuild me according torepparttar 123487 needs ofrepparttar 123488 military. These are two ofrepparttar 123489 underlying premises of your first few weeks, or months, of your time inrepparttar 123490 military. Actually, I enjoyed it, but then Air Force Basic is only between six and eight weeks. The other branches have much more extensive training programs that can last for months.

However,repparttar 123491 idea here is that, I have been thinking about various challenges presented to myself, and others, overrepparttar 123492 years and comparing these challenges torepparttar 123493 state ofrepparttar 123494 individual atrepparttar 123495 end ofrepparttar 123496 challenge. It is most interesting to note that, like Basic Training, you are either strengthen and ready for your mission, or you're washed out or pushed back torepparttar 123497 beginning to re-experience your training.

--- Challenges ---

I have been hit with many challenges throughout my life; however,repparttar 123498 one thing I can say, now that I made it outrepparttar 123499 other end, is that I am much better for it. Of course, life continues to throw odd little challenges every day; however, I have come to realize that it is my responsibility for creatingrepparttar 123500 circumstances forrepparttar 123501 challenges and my choice as to whether I want to deal with them.

Any time that you remain quiet and still, challenges will rarely appear. This, because, you're not moving and your space in life is stagnant. However, true challenges only occur once you decide to move forward. When you move, you create an imbalance that must be rebalanced, thus creating friction. Once you gain some momentum,repparttar 123502 friction becomes inconsequential and balance returns to accommodate your new state of forward movement.

--- Education ---

Every time you move toward a goal,repparttar 123503 Universe acknowledges your movement and immediately establishes a path of travel. It literally definesrepparttar 123504 future events and situations based on your current decisions and actions. However, this path can be seen asrepparttar 123505 curriculum necessary to prepare you forrepparttar 123506 ultimate objective. Indeed,repparttar 123507 Universe won't tell you whether you should pursue this path; however, it will throw lessons inrepparttar 123508 way to ensure that you learn what is necessary for your ultimate chosen objective.

Avoid This Tendency And You'll Press Beyond Your Limits!

Written by Richard Vegas


Inside of every one of us isrepparttar desire to press beyond our own limitations. Just forty years ago,repparttar 123486 goal to land onrepparttar 123487 moon was a huge step for mankind. Now, we've gone beyondrepparttar 123488 moon andrepparttar 123489 end is nowhere in sight. But, consider this: Every challenge we face, can be stopped dead in its tracks with one little undesirable tendency. Hmm…

As Dead As Dead Can Be!

Many people allow themselves to be de-railed by their opportunities. They look at their short comings and limitations and say, "I'm too young", "I'm too old", "I'm too uneducated", "I don't have enough money", I'm too much of this", and "I'm too little of that". Blah, Blah.

Let me give you a perfect example of what I'm talking about. You rememberrepparttar 123490 story of Abraham inrepparttar 123491 Bible? He was told he would becomerepparttar 123492 father of many nations. But, when he was told that, he was already seventy five years old.

Now, looking at this inrepparttar 123493 natural way of thinking, you tell me how a seventy five year old man could berepparttar 123494 father of anything, especially a nation. And naturally thinking; how was that grandma, he was married to, going to give birth to a nation?

He Never Was The Sharpest Tool In The Shed!

And,repparttar 123495 Bible says she was barren. Well, here is this old man and he thinks he'srepparttar 123496 father of many nations. He even went around telling everyone he met, "I'mrepparttar 123497 father of many nations". You can imagine how people must have looked at him.

They probably thought all of that old man's wealth has made him crazy. Well, Abraham's got a problem or opportunity if you will. He knows what his limitations are. He knows his body is beyondrepparttar 123498 time of fathering a child, and he knows his wife is barren.

But, Abraham didn't think ofrepparttar 123499 condition of his body or his wife's barren condition. In other words, he avoidedrepparttar 123500 tendency to make "excuses" for his limitations. Now get this: Abraham did have a child and, by his barren wife.

That Takes The Cake!

But, he was one hundred years old beforerepparttar 123501 child was born. And, this isrepparttar 123502 part I'm amazed with; He waited twenty five years and kept believing that he wasrepparttar 123503 father of many nations. I sometimes think I've gonerepparttar 123504 limit when I've waited twenty five minutes. But,repparttar 123505 point is; he didn't make excuses for his limitations.

He couldn't afford to. Abraham was no different than we are. If he had considered his wife and his own body, there is no way that old man could have kept saying "I'mrepparttar 123506 father of many nations" for twenty five years! He would have been just like some of us and quit after three days.

Abraham could have said, "I'm too old", "my wife is too old", . You see, his wife was ninety years old whenrepparttar 123507 child was born! Don't you know she was surprised? When she went into labor she probably thought she had appendicitis. Nah, I'm kidding.

Now I know that this is an extreme example, but, stillrepparttar 123508 same, excuses are part of our natural tendencies no matter how extreme they are.

The Conventional Wisdom!

The more challengingrepparttar 123509 situation,repparttar 123510 morerepparttar 123511 excuses seem to have an insatiable desire to rear their ugly head. Check up on yourself sometime. What isrepparttar 123512 first knee-jerk reaction that you find coming out of you when you first face some challenge that has to be handled. Now, you may have trained yourself to avoid excuses, and I commend you for that.

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