Faith Fellowship Church PO Box 1586 Broken Arrow, OK 74013, 918-451-0270May I ask you a question?
Is character important to you? Think about your character for a moment. Most people when asked to consider
importance of character agree that everyone should have a good character. And why shouldn’t everyone to have character. Everything benefits from it. However if you aren’t on
list, there isn’t much point in preaching character to others. Unless you consider character important in your life, then you can’t demand it of others.
For example, suppose you like to “fudge” your integrity. Every now and then, you take home a few items from work. You justify your actions by saying that your employer makes good profits and won’t miss
small items you take from his shop. In your mind you are not stealing from your employer, just helping yourself to small items of insignificance.
Then one day your son takes $10 from your wallet without your permission. When you discover what he has done, you call him to account for his actions. He tells you it’s no big deal. He tells you that he has seen
items you bring home from
shop and listens to you justify your actions. Then he says, “Dad if you can take things from your job, then why can’t I take money from you without asking?”
This reality hit me hard one day. I’ve always expected others to be honest and upright towards me, but my integrity towards others was relative at best. No, I didn’t cheat or steal from my fellowman, but I did justify “fudging” once and a while. I could justify leaving out some taxable income because I resented
IRS. I thought nothing about taking a few items from my employer from time to time. After all he could afford
losses. I could always justify what I did, but I was never willing to admit that I was stealing. Then one day, like I said, it hit me. What if I owned a business and I had several employees taking home company property at will. I would feel violated. And rightly so because I would be
one taking
loss. I began to see my actions as contrary to Biblical ethics, and finally I admitted to myself that I was wrong. That’s when I changed my behavior.