ROMANCE 101—How to turn Your Relationship into a Great Romance!Written by Gina Woods
OK...Let's talk about romance! The #1 most important thing you need to turn your relationship into a great romance is DESIRE. You have to WANT great romance in your life. Well, who wouldn't want that? But it won't just happen...it will take some effort. But it will be well worth it! When asking couples why they think romance has escaped their relationships, most common excuse is TIME. It's sooooooo hard to find time and energy to devote to your relationships. But think for a moment back to your courtship. What was different then? Didn't you have a job then? Didn't you have other responsibilities then? Of course you did...maybe not to extent that you do now, but you still had a schedule to keep, whether it was attending college, studying, playing sports, attending club meetings, keeping a job, etc. But somehow you found time to "woo" your partner, right? You found time to date, right? Why? Because you WANTED TO! You planned it into your schedule and did it! And why were those times together so special? Because that specific amount of time was set aside and reserved for one reason...ROMANCE! And during those "dates" you gave 100% of your attention to each other, right? That's what made it special. Now I want you to think about last time you and your partner went out to dinner. What did you talk about? Maybe it was family finances, or difficulties at work, or...the KIDS. Wow, what a romantic dinner, huh? That's problem. You have to learn to create romantic situations that focus 100% on each other. Save "problem solving" for another time. I can't tell you how many times in past my husband and I went out to dinner and whenever we got home, I didn't even feel like we went out! Why? Because whole time we were out, we were busy doing that "problem solving" stuff instead of enjoying what little time we had together. So, that's second most important thing you need to turn your relationship into a great romance...PRIORITY. Make it a priority to spend quality, FOCUSED time with your partner. These special times should be set aside JUST for two of you to enjoy each others company...nothing else...PERIOD.
| | Playful or Seductive - 10 kinky things to do this Valentines!Written by Miss Kensington
Who said valentines was a dinner for two and quick shag at end of night. Live a little and have some fun. Well fear not Miss Kensington comes to rescue, here are 10 kinky things to do this Valentines Day some are playful and some are very seductive you choose and maybe more than one! Dinner 4 two cooking is very sensual but please be careful! Cook for your partner naked trust me it adds some light humour to evening you can also put desert onto his cock or her tits to take things a little further! A guy I met one tied a rose around his waist so it covered his cock! Box of treats You need to both be in a playful mood for this one. Get a show box and wrap it in red paper and tie with a ribbon. Into box put lots of toys each wrapped individually if you are inventive perhaps have a task on ideas include: satin ribbon long wide pieces for eyes and thinner longer pieces for hands and feet, love dice, feather with a task such as tickle me, bondage tape with a task such as wrap me up tits and crutch area are great bound, vibrator with a task such as find me a good home! These are all available on good internet sites, dont feel disgusted see it more as light-hearted fun. The key is you each un wrap a present and even come up with your own idea or perhaps you follow task. Post it I love post it notes this is a great one for guys since they dont have lingerie equivalent. The key is to leave post its all around house which leads partner to bedroom with final post it being on or about person leading trail. For a girl on her tits and for guy of course his prick. You can have post its such as drink this with a glass of champagne or perhaps eat this being a chocolate or actions such as slip into this or take off your X. Dress to impress The least you can do girls is to wear a sexy push up bra, thong and suspenders perhaps with some black stilettos or guys why not buy all this as a gift for your girl? Invitation Classic yet very effective. Leave your partner a note on bed to meet you in a specific location at a specific time perhaps also leave something behind like a black thong or bow tie. Please make sure you mention to dress for occasion! This works best when you are booked into a hotel or perhaps a restaurant. You meet up and create a new identity for evening, act it our and have fun! Leave your partner a card with desired identity so they can play along.
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