READY, SET…WAIT?THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DECIDING AND DOING
”Five frogs are sitting on a log. Four decide to jump off. How many are left?
Answer: five.
Why? Because there's a difference between deciding and doing” Mark L. Feldman & Michael F. Spratt
You have done it. You have a plan. You've outlined priorities; you know what has to get done to reach
goal. You are at
“go” point when you start getting nervous.
Ok, so JUMP!
Sure, except… “Where am I going to find
time? What if I lose my staff? What if
plan fails? OR, WHAT IF THE PLAN TAKES OFF?”
Welcome to
critical place where many plans hit a crossroad. A plan - whether it’s on paper, or buried somewhere in your PC (or even
back of your mind) - may carefully identify strengths, capture a vision and detail
steps to make your dreams come true, but if you don’t act on it, it is destined to be just a record of what “might have been”.
None of
steps in
strategic planning process is as vital as that of taking a plan forward and making it work.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUCCESS AND STUCK
“The most difficult thing is
decision to act,
rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and
procedure,
process is its own reward.” Amelia Earhart
When
goal is to swim in a new direction,
difference between success and ‘stuck’ likely involves change.
They tell us it takes 21 days to break an old habit, and 65 days to establish a new one! The basic truth is - change isn’t easy. We regularly travel nicely established paths formed by our habits. To forge new roads, our old habits need to be replaced. Unfortunately we get used to doing it one way for so long, it becomes comfortable. The transition period during any change initiative is usually uncomfortable – and it is hard to get out of a familiar, comfortable place.
Another reason that it is hard to change habits is that we forget to. You have to have reminders around during a transition period, or you probably won't remember.
The truth is that even
most self-determined, energetic, ‘take charge’ types of people who are good at getting things done, find it hard to change habits on their own.