Sometimes we are so occupied with our daily routine in life that we forget that “we” are most important element of our existence. We need to be nourished in order to grow.

When we look at people around us, we most likely find that most people’s favorite pastime is to complain. And just why do we complain anyway? Is it because we need something? Is it that we lack something? Is it that we need or want sympathy? Is it because we need attention? Is it just that we just like to complain; or is it that we just like to hear ourselves talk? Is it becoming a pattern with you? These are some of most common elements that describe our problem.

I generated a list that can either make us happy, or it can make us miserable. Sometimes we need to draw line for ourselves, and we are only ones who can do that!

Be Happy!

1-Just simply be happy and content with yourself, and who you are. 2-Love yourself. 3-Accept yourself for who you are, and as you are. 4-Life is simple, stop trying to complicate it. 5-Life is about understanding. The lessons and experiences you have are only for your own growth and for better soul awareness. 6-Discover who you are, and your soul, and get acquainted with that. 7-Make some time for yourself every day. 8-Learn to listen. 9-Pay attention to your child(ren), help your elders, and you will feel fulfilled. 10-Be good to yourself. 11-Accept humiliation as part of your growth. 12-Always have peace of mind. It’s not easy, but try to create it.

Life isn’t what challenges us, “we” challenge “ourselves”.

Be Miserable!

1-Do live for other people and feel miserable. 2-Do look to others for support, become dependent on others. 3-Do live up to a fake image that is not you. 4-Do take care of everyone before yourself. 5-Do always negate yourself. 6-Do love others before loving yourself. 7-Do live according to traditions just to please others or do things that do not fit in with your own philosophy in life. 8-Do live other people’s life karma who they are. That including your family. Live your own life karma. 9-Become greedy, jealous, stubborn, or too sensitive to accept criticism. 10-Do allow your ego and pride to take over your life.

Life is simple so let’s stop complicating it.

Choices are out there. It is up to you to choose your own direction in life. It is very important to realize that we hold our own destiny in life, and no one else’s. It is also very important to understand your own rights, because you do have FREE WILL. Even GOD, which I refer to as a “Great Energy Force”, that you believe in respects your Free Will because you are part of this GOD and that energy is in us always. If your GOD does not respect that, then it becomes a contradiction and goes against all that’s out there in all religions. This “great energy force” is all about love, forgiveness and compassion, and not anything else.

When our GOD will respect our Free Will, why aren’t we humans respecting each other’s Free Will? In many instances we have been raped of our Free Will by many limitations which are inflicted upon us every day. Such limitations can manipulate direction we will take in our lives, thus affecting our karma. We do this as individuals and as a society.

When a human Soul says NO to someone, it does NOT mean YES or that they can try to manipulate other person in order to change their decision, by tapping into their weaker side. No means No and that has to be respected at all times otherwise we are creating karma for our soul.

Something More!

I don't like coffee, that's why I said Yuk. Maybe you failed because there was something more that was needed before you could find success you were seeking.

Have you ever heard analogy that, "the whole is greater than sum of its parts"? This is true with every achievement, task, or result. On other side, every part must be smaller than whole. So, it's very important that you consider all parts to complete whole.

A negative attitude is one cause of failure. It is not in every case, but if a nasty situation just seemed to refuse to get out of my way that would be one thing I would look for.

I know what I need… ESP!

A cause of failure could be ignorance of facts or powers available to create success. A cause of failure could be that you know facts, and fail to apply them to a given situation. Another cause is, you may not know how to use or control powers available known and unknown to you.

Have you ever heard this? "That only persistence is omnipotent". When you pursue success and winning with a positive frame of mind, you keep on trying. There is no room for stopping. You leave yourself no bridges to go back to.

Seek and you shall find!

Someone said; that's too dangerous. I would be foolish to leave myself no escape hatch. Life never leaves us with no way out. It's only a perception in your own mind; in your own thinking. I don't care how bad situation is, there is always a way out. LOOK FOR IT!

Every time someone says there is no way out, here's what's happening. They are allowing a negative attitude to convince them to just lie down and take whatever is coming their way. They tell themselves there is no way out. So, they don't look for one.

Evict demon within?

You may have 9 pieces of whole in place and all you need is one more to achieve success, but, if you don't stop listening to that stinking voice inside your head, you won't find that final piece that makes up whole.

Perhaps there are some problems in your life you would like to solve. You will be able to much easier if you stop listening to that little voice inside your head when it says things to you like; "dummy, what you gonna do now"?

The Truth Will Set You Free!

Here are some examples of just how simple this can be. There was a song writer who could not get his song published. He sold it to another song writer and that guy added "something more" that it needed. He added 3 little words, Hip, Hip, Hooray! It became a big hit. He completed whole.