The Arrogant Writer: Five Ways to Nurture and Defend your MuseBy Jill Nagle
Arrogance has a bad rap. We think of arrogant people as unpleasant to be around, full of themselves, and incapable of taking an interest in anyone else. However, when applied to one’s own writing, a certain measure of well-placed arrogance can be a useful tool.
Writing can be a scary enterprise. The writer puts herself out for public scrutiny in a way most other artists and professionals do not. When
writer publishes, she commits herself to
words she’s written for
rest of her life. Even if she changes her mind about what she’s said, others may still react to
piece decades after it first appears in print. This can make even
act of putting pen to paper (or more likely, fingers to keyboard) an anxiety-producing ordeal.
Then there is
schooling most of us received, which treated writing as a chore rewarded when well done or punished when poorly done, as opposed to a pleasurable activity for ourselves and our readers. Very few of us had any audience for any
writing we did in classrooms, other than
teachers who instructed, criticized and graded us. It’s no wonder most writers suffer from self-doubt rather than overconfidence. We tend to underestimate ourselves and our words, even when they come from
most powerful places inside us, even when we get accolades from
outside world, and even long after we finally get published.
Practicing selective arrogance can help disarm these nasty doubts. And, not to worry: If you are not arrogant to begin with, practicing
type of arrogance I suggest will not transform you into an insufferable braggart. Rather, it will help uplift you from
gutters of self-doubt onto
clean, dry road to getting published. Even if you do not feel in
least arrogant about your writing, you can still follow my simple instructions to act as if you do, with
same results: to get published, or to get published again.
Selective arrogance does not mean thinking of yourself as any better than anyone else, or as having reached
pinnacle of your skills. Rather, it means treating every word you write as a precious baby worthy of
greatest care and nurturance. Here’s how to do that:
Never, ever throw anything away, period.
Carry with you at all times a means to record your creative thoughts.
Record your creative bursts, even if other voices inside you are dismissing them with negative judgments.
Trust your impulses and passions: if you feel drawn to write about something, write about it!
Eschew impatience-give your babies
time they need to gestate. If you’ve read between
lines, you see that these instructions have you do nothing more than treat yourself and your writing with respect. However, because many people have a hard time doing even that, I counsel my clients to behave arrogantly. It gets them giggling and releasing
feelings they have about their writing, and makes it easier to find that respect.
Although you may have read elsewhere to be prepared to throw away your first writing attempts, to release attachment to your early work and
like, nuggets of wisdom and creativity appear throughout a writer’s life from childhood through seniority. I advocate collecting and these and treating them with care, perhaps polishing them now and again. There is no magical moment when one suddenly becomes “a good writer.” Thus, your most novice scribblings become diamond mines.