Picking Up The Pieces

Written by Annagail Lynes


"My feelings have changed," my boyfriend of five years told me during one of our nightly seven o'clock phone calls. "I don't think we should see each other anymore." His words hit me, probably worse than if he had just punched me inrepparttar stomach. The pain of being physically hit would eventually subside, butrepparttar 111372 emotional pain that his words had left would be a battle wound I would carry with me from relationship to relationship until it finally healed. I have had four steady boyfriends in my life. Two of which I dumped, and two of which I was dumped by. In my experience, it is much worse being dumped than doingrepparttar 111373 dumping. When you are dumped, you feel like you are being rejected, that you were somehow not good enough. Wen I was freelance writing, evitably I would be rejected either becauserepparttar 111374 magazine didn't have enough room or because they did a similar article. But I read an article that said, "Every article has a home. And when you receive a rejection letter, it is just saying that your article lives at a different address." The same is true with relationship. God has a person in mind for each of us, so when we are dumped by one person, we can just cross that one of our list. The one God has for us is still out there. All we have to do is find him or her. What'srepparttar 111375 old saying? You have to kiss a lot of toads before you find a prince. After I was dumped, I felt numb. Thenrepparttar 111376 anger set in. My anger was building, and I was afraid if it wasn’t released soon that I would explode like an active volcano, spewing destruction on everyone and everything in my path. Ephesians 4:26 warns us to “Be ye angry, and sin not...,” which indicates that anger in itself is not a sin. It is what we do with that anger, that is.

God gave usrepparttar 111377 emotion of anger as a built-in system that flashes when evil is triumphing, such as when you see your little sister being beat up by an older student at school or when you see one of your teachers abusing a classmate.

What do we do with that anger?

It is perhaps better to isolate yourself by taking a walk or going into your bedroom. When you are alone, tell God about your problems in detail and fromrepparttar 111378 bottom of your heart. God understands you better than you understand yourself. He knows what you should do and can offer you advice you never thought of. Just talk to Him as if you were talking to a friend.

Then decide what course of action to take. Make sure it is an action where you are able to handle your anger constructively. Punching someone out or telling a someone off is not handling your anger appropriately.

Before trying counseling, find a good friend who will let you use him as a sounding board. Someone you can call day or night, who will listen to you about your problems and feelings. Promise to dorepparttar 111379 same for that person at some future time.

Poke'Mon Exposed

Written by Annagail Lynes


Have you seenrepparttar Campbell soup commercial aboutrepparttar 111371 two brothers playing a video game. The one where their mom calls them to eat. One video game monster says torepparttar 111372 other, "Don't worry. They'll be back. They need us." Thenrepparttar 111373 monster whispers, "I hear footsteps," obviously convinced it wasrepparttar 111374 kids coming to finish their game. Asrepparttar 111375 mom turns offrepparttar 111376 video game, you hear "Oh no! It'srepparttar 111377 mom!" Most find this commercial amusing, maybe enough to write "Campbell's soup" on their grocery list. Seeing nothing odd about it. After all, kids playing video games are commonplace scenes in our society.

Now consider this next scene: children, maybe your younger brothers or sisters, are playing inrepparttar 111378 school yard. They are running around, waving sticks inrepparttar 111379 air. Summoning spirits by screaming, "Spirits enter me." Acrossrepparttar 111380 nation, this scene too is commonplace.

Why would kids do that? Where were they taught this?

According to Berit Kjos website (http://www.crossroad.to), government schools fromrepparttar 111381 Pacific torepparttar 111382 Atlantic are teaching students pagan formulas for invoking "angelic" or "demonic" spirits through multi-cultural education, popular books, movies and television shows. But video and role-playing games, such as Poke'mon, have only attributed torepparttar 111383 problem.

Sincerepparttar 111384 release ofrepparttar 111385 Poke'mon trading cards, children have been stabbed and beat up by classmates, demanding Poke'mon cards. Young adults have stolen money from their mothers' purses and others have broken into houses. All to collectrepparttar 111386 Poke'mon trading cards.

“Once we realizedrepparttar 111387 demonic force involved with Poke’mon, we banned everything from our home. At first,repparttar 111388 kids were resistant, but after we flooded them with information concerning how and where Poke’mon derived they were very open to doing what was right inrepparttar 111389 sight ofrepparttar 111390 Lord,” Joni Lamb, mother of three children,. says.

As you log ontorepparttar 111391 Poke'mon website, you findrepparttar 111392 objective ofrepparttar 111393 game spelled out for you. "Welcome torepparttar 111394 world of Poke'mon, a special place where people just like you train to becomerepparttar 111395 Number-One Poke'mon Master inrepparttar 111396 world."

What is a Poke'mon? A Poke'mon is an unbelievable creature that its own unique fighting abilities. One of these creatures can grow and transform into an even more forceful creature. There are currently 150 types of Poke'mon.

How do you becomerepparttar 111397 Number-One Poke'mon Master inrepparttar 111398 world? In an episode,repparttar 111399 boy hero, Ash, had seized his fifth Poke'mon. According to his mentor, he had to catch a lot more Poke'mon if he wanted be a Poke'mon master. The mentor told him thatrepparttar 111400 more Ash caught and trained,repparttar 111401 more power Ash would have for future battles. From this, clearly you have to catch all 150 Poke'mon to gain number-one status.

How does Poke'mon and other video and role-playing games affect your mind? By giving you a seductive vision to become a Poke'mon master. As a Poke'mon master, you are guaranteed supernatural powers. Just as an addict,repparttar 111402 more you get,repparttar 111403 more you need. To top it off, after every episode ofrepparttar 111404 Poke'mon television series, you are commanded "gotta catch 'em all."

Onrepparttar 111405 Berit Kjos website, Susan Gavano, also a mother of three children, states "From what I hear, he [her son] and two other out ofrepparttar 111406 23 children in his class arerepparttar 111407 only ones who aren't addicted to it. No one at his school now is allowed to bring in their Poke'Mon cards, it got too out of control."

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