Arguments aren't always bad things. SometimesThey're used to convince someone of an
important point they may not yet realize.
You've probably used arguments in this way
most of your life in fact!
Maybe you wanted to go somewhere and had to
convince your parents that is was a good idea to
let you go. So you argued your position with them.
Maybe you wanted to buy a big ticket item and had
to argue
value of buying it with your spouse!
Arguments don't necessarily have to be shouting
matches. They can simply be a device used to
convince someone of something that you feel is
important.
It's funny then, how so few sales people use
art of
arguing to sell their products. Wouldn't a person who
wants someone to buy something from them want
to try and convince that one that it'd be a good idea?
Maybe it's because it's not such a good idea?
Could be why so many sales pitches are designed to
connive potential customers into buying rather than
giving them a convincing argument instead.
Let's face it . . .
Who'd want to argue a losing point?
After all, if a product is of little value, who in their right
mind would want to take
position of trying to
convince someone it had value?
Maybe that's why so few try to convince rather than
connive!
But what is
difference between convincing and conniving