How would you like to spruce up your self-image? You know, give your self-esteem a real boost? You are equipped to do so, you know. Please, allow me to show you a neat little trick that will jumpstart your self-image makeover.Okay, ready? I want you to think of a big, mean dog. He’s baring his teeth and growling at you. He looks like he’s about to pounce on you. There’s nothing standing between you and him. Take your time and make him look as ferocious and dangerous as possible. Okay, stop! Forget about that dog for a moment.
Instead, I want you to picture a cute little puppy. Picture him clearly now. This little guy is as friendly as they come. He is wagging his tail and wiggling toward you, anxious for you to rub his belly and scratch his ears. Aw, isn’t that sweet?
Now, let’s look at what happened here. First you saw in your mind’s eye a vicious dog. I would bet that your mind furnished all sorts of details, such as color, size, type, etc. Your imagination didn’t need to be given instructions. It went to work automatically.
Now, how did you feel with this picture in your mind? Tense? Did you clench your jaw? Or perhaps your breathing became very shallow or stopped altogether for a few moments.
Then, when I instructed you to envision a friendly puppy, again your mind concocted all
details. What was your reaction this time? Did you smile? Did you chuckle softly to yourself?
I’d like to point out two things. First, neither of those pictures existed anywhere in your immediate reality. They were both simply figments of your imagination. Nonetheless,
images you created were no doubt vivid. And more importantly, your reactions, physical, psychological and emotional, were all quite real.
Second, you were able to switch mental pictures completely and what’s more, you did it in a flash. Exactly HOW did you accomplish this? Do you know? Well, I don’t know either, but that doesn’t alter
fact that you are, indeed, capable of conjuring up whatever you want, whenever you want, complete with as many details as you want. This is quite an astonishing feat!
There’s no trick to it really. It’s just
natural capacity of mind that you were born with. Can you believe that your mind has such phenomenal power? And you, and only you, have
final say as to which pictures you allow to linger in your mind. You control
master switch!
Once we start to appreciate
tremendous power of our own minds, then it becomes much easier to put forth whatever effort is necessary to feed it
messages WE choose rather than society’s insinuations of our inferiority. Can you see how powerful this mental imagery can be in boosting your self-esteem?