PRIME THAT PUMP! Part 2

Written by Rosella Aranda


In Part 1 of this article, we talked about reaching our goals as largely a matter of following through on desire, vision and action. The difficulty for most of us lies in continuing to believe that our efforts will ever bear fruit when these fruits have not yet begun to materialize.

Jonathan Swift said it best. “Vision isrepparttar art of seeing things invisible.”

In order to continue to work toward that which we cannot yet see, our motives must be very personal and very compelling, indeed. So, let’s have a closer look atrepparttar 122854 first ofrepparttar 122855 necessary components, desire.

Desire, even a fervent one, can easily become clouded by obstacles if we choose to focus onrepparttar 122856 obstacles instead of on our goals. Obstacles are what we see when we take our eyes offrepparttar 122857 goal.

I believe it helps if we accept fromrepparttar 122858 outset that obstacles and setbacks will arise. It should come as no surprise or source of irritation when this occurs. This is simply part ofrepparttar 122859 natural ebb and flow of business.

If you stop and think about it, it’s ridiculous to expect that it will be clear sailingrepparttar 122860 entire way. And yet, people do become unduly irritated and discouraged when things don’t go according to plan.

Hitting a few bumps and potholes inrepparttar 122861 road only signifies that we are in fact travelingrepparttar 122862 road, and not necessarily that we’re going downrepparttar 122863 wrong one. Viewed in this light, you could say that dealing with a few snags here and there is a good thing. It certainly beats sitting around doing nothing to further our progress, right?

Now granted, in order to endure a ride that isn’t always comfortable, you had better have a really good reason for doing so. So here comes your self-appointed cheerleader to urge you on. GRAB THAT GOAL, HONEY!

That’s right. Reach out and grab it! Take those vague, unformed thoughts that flutter around in your head and solidify them by setting them down in black and white. Grapple with them. Tie them down torepparttar 122864 paper. Wrap some words around them. You might need to change and rearrange some words. Why, you might even need to think about what it is that you really, really want.

There are mountains of evidence to show thatrepparttar 122865 daily ritual of writing down one’s goals is of stupendous importance. Motivational speakers have delivered volumes of goal-setting information. Entire books have been devoted to this topic. Writing down your desires is a recurrent theme in just about every single success book ever published.

And consider this. Harvard studies indicate that ofrepparttar 122866 3% of people who enjoy extreme success,repparttar 122867 one common link among them was this practice of writing down their goals, a practice NOT shared withrepparttar 122868 other 97% ofrepparttar 122869 “also ran.”

So why is it that we resist doing this one little thing that has been proven to have such life-altering consequences? Is it because it is such a small sacrifice that we figure it can be ignored? Do people find such a small chore demeaning? Are we just plain old lazy?

Work is the key

Written by Leon van der Walt


"Cursed isrepparttar ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it allrepparttar 122853 days of your life. It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eatrepparttar 122854 plants ofrepparttar 122855 field. Byrepparttar 122856 sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return torepparttar 122857 ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return." - Genesis 3:17-19

And this is just our curse for life. Work is not meant to be fun. Work is not meant to be enjoyed. Just look at ants, those busybodies. We are supposed to work like them. There has to be an easier way.

I have inside me this paradox. I want to become successful, but not with too much work. My struggle is with laziness and with not following through withrepparttar 122858 things I have started. Sub-consciously I have hadrepparttar 122859 mentality: "Nobody really likes work. Why would I be different?" I want to takerepparttar 122860 easy road to success. I have even set goals to achieve what I perceive as success, only to come short of one ingredient - action. I want to be like Robert Frost and say that I tookrepparttar 122861 path less travelled, yetrepparttar 122862 path of least resistance, of laziness, is much easier. I have come to realise for things to change I must change.

But where does one begin? I went back torepparttar 122863 books I have read andrepparttar 122864 people whom I respect. I studiedrepparttar 122865 likes of Tiger Woods and Bill Gates. Of allrepparttar 122866 successful people I have studied, torepparttar 122867 last one, they are hard workers. We often dream of living a life like Tiger Woods must surely lead. But Tiger's work on golf started when he was just three years old. Would you want to work for seventeen years at one thing until you make a success of it and continue to work on it day in and day out? Bill Gates would often work throughoutrepparttar 122868 night and his co-workers would go home and when they would come backrepparttar 122869 next day, he would still be there. Eighteen-hour days, seven days per week. Do you want to work that hard?

Work,repparttar 122870 noun, meansrepparttar 122871 "expenditure of energy, striving, application of effort to some purpose" (Oxford dictionary) or "the exertion of strength; effort directed to an end" (President New English Dictionary). Often we wantrepparttar 122872 purpose or end, but are not willing to expendrepparttar 122873 energy. They say a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, but what they often neglect to say is that you have about two million steps to go. Yes, success is hard work and if you are not a hard worker, success will remain but a distant dream.

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