Organizing Tips to Help You Conquer the Laundry Monster

Written by Bridget Messino


Laundry. You sort, you wash, you fold, you blink – andrepparttar pile of dirty clothes has grown all over again. Laundry is a fact of life, but approachingrepparttar 129616 task in an organized way can make it more manageable. Preparation is Halfrepparttar 129617 Battle If you have a large family (or lots of clothes!), sortingrepparttar 129618 laundry can be a daunting task all on its own. Sorting as you go not only endsrepparttar 129619 need for this part ofrepparttar 129620 project, but also may encourage you to do laundry more often because it's all sorted and ready to go! Use a multi-compartmented hamper or several laundry baskets and as you throw in your dirty clothes just drop them inrepparttar 129621 appropriate section (even kids as young as pre-schoolers can learn to do this -- make it fun for them, give them a small reward (an extra 15 minutes of TV? staying up 10 minutes later?) each time they get everything inrepparttar 129622 right spot!)

Toss items that need dry cleaning into a special basket or bag as soon as you take it off. This way, when you are ready to go torepparttar 129623 cleaners you can just grab them, rather than having to hunt for them in allrepparttar 129624 dirty laundry (ugh!)

Make a habit of always keeping a spare of laundry detergent, dryer sheets and whatever else you use regularly. That way you never have to drop everything and run torepparttar 129625 store to complete your laundry (or use that as a reason to not completerepparttar 129626 laundry...)

Put Awayrepparttar 129627 Clean Clothes in a Flash! Keep hangers and a folding hanging rack nearrepparttar 129628 dryer. Save steps by putting hanging items directly on hangers rather than folding and toting them first. As you fold clean laundry, place items in baskets by person to simplifyrepparttar 129629 process of putting it all away. Get everyone in onrepparttar 129630 act. Even small children can help put away some of their own clothes -- socks, underwear, etc. Older kids can put it all away. If you sharerepparttar 129631 burden, it's not so overwhelming.

If You Want Other People to Like You, Like Yourself First!

Written by Royane Real


If You Want Others to Like You, Like Yourself First!

Many of us mistakenly believe that it’s wrong or conceited, to think we have any good qualities. We may spend a lot of time berating ourselves for our negative qualities, thinking that self criticism isrepparttar key to improving our performance. However, a constant focus on our supposed shortcomings can hinder our efforts to make friends with other people.

How can we haverepparttar 129614 confidence to make new friends if we think we don’t have much to offer? How can we believe that others could like us if we believe our inner being is flawed? Or if we think we are too boring to interest anyone else?

We may wonder what anyone else would see in us if we don’t see any good in ourselves. In order for others to be attracted to us, they must be able to easily see our best qualities. If we focus on our good qualities we will have much more confidence that we have something of value to offer in a relationship.

If you wish to be socially successful, it’s important to acceptrepparttar 129615 fact that not everybody is going to like you under all circumstances. Not everyone is going to likerepparttar 129616 package you come in, especially on first meeting you. Every person has a unique pattern of likes and dislikes which were formed long before they met you. Don’t think you have to condemn yourself as a failure if it seems that someone else doesn’t like you.

If someone seems to dislike you,repparttar 129617 reason for that dislike might have little or nothing to do with you. The person who doesn’t like you might be fearful, or shallow, or busy or shy. Perhaps you and that person are simply a mismatch for each other at this particular time.

Don’t take yourself out ofrepparttar 129618 game by deciding that your flaws are bigger than your assets. In fact, some ofrepparttar 129619 very qualities you consider to be flaws may be irresistible to someone else. For allrepparttar 129620 factors that might cause one person to reject you, there are at least as many factors that will work in your favor with someone else.

You might be thirty pounds over your ideal weight, but you may have a wonderful laugh and a huge zest for life. There are many people to whom your extra pounds will literally be invisible. You may drive a shabby car, but you might be a great dancer and a loyal friend. There are people out there looking for loyalty, or fun, or sweetness, or wit, andrepparttar 129621 package it comes in is not important.

If you are worried that you are not beautiful enough to attract friends, keep in mind that not everyone is looking for physical beauty in their friends.

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