Opportunity Will Knock, If It Can Find the Door

Written by Glenn Beach


Is your home office a spare room full of whatever doesn't fit anywhere else? Does your daily commute end with winding your way through a corporate maze to your own crowded cubicle? Do you sit down at your desk and push piles of papers aside to create a little workspace?

If this sounds familiar, and you know that your productivity is suffering, maybe you want to try a little feng shui in your workspace.

Feng shui (pronounced "fung schway") isrepparttar ancient art of placement and design that balances and enhancesrepparttar 104700 energy flow in an environment. This can be placement of a home on a piece of property, location of an office building on a city block, orientation of rooms in a house, arrangement of furniture in a room or objects on a desk.

For a complete feng shui evaluation, you need to consult with a professional. It's far too complex to address completely in an article. I'll just give you a few examples of techniques you can try so you can see if feng shui is for you.

In any situation, there will obviously be believers and non-believers, and this is true of co-workers as well as spouses. To effect change inrepparttar 104701 corporate environment or at home, you have to start with yourself, and realistically this may be all you can accomplish.

Atrepparttar 104702 center of this belief system is a powerful reality that you need to be able to embrace: There is an energy flow that BRINGS abundance to all of life. Using feng shui to attract things to you means removing blockages and enhancing this natural flow. This doesn't mean you only need to moverepparttar 104703 furniture around and then sit back and wait forrepparttar 104704 money to arrive; it removesrepparttar 104705 suffering and struggle and leaves you working from a place of peace atrepparttar 104706 center of your being.

Clutter is stagnant energy that leaves no room for growth. The tendency to save things because "someday you might need them" indicates a lack of belief inrepparttar 104707 energy flow that brings abundance to you. Your message torepparttar 104708 universe is that you don't trust that it will provide for you. The flow stops.

This energy flow, called ch'i ("chee"), enters throughrepparttar 104709 front door of any building or room and is then dispersed. It also enters through windows. It exits through doors and windows too. Duringrepparttar 104710 day, it enters through windows, at night it exits, hence a reason to close curtains. Think of it as air or water flow; it's like that.

If you want more opportunity in your work environment, make surerepparttar 104711 path torepparttar 104712 door is as wide asrepparttar 104713 door. This goes for paths, hallways and outer rooms. The easiest way to attract ch'i is to get rid of clutter; no toys scattered on paths torepparttar 104714 house, no shoes strewn inrepparttar 104715 middle ofrepparttar 104716 hallway or piles of boxes betweenrepparttar 104717 world and your desk.

Ifrepparttar 104718 ch'i entering through your door immediately meets a wall, you can compensate with mirrors. Ifrepparttar 104719 ch'i enters and there are windows directly opposite, it enters and leaves again quickly. A partition or some other object, or even curtains, can slow or diffuserepparttar 104720 flow.

Six Quick Tips to Build Charisma

Written by Karla Brandau, CSP


"Charisma isrepparttar intangible that makes people want to follow you, to be around you, to be influenced by you." -- Roger Dawson

Each person is born ethnocentric, or believing that other people and events revolve around them which is generally true forrepparttar 104699 first few years of a child's life. The focus of activity for a growing child is inward. Some people carry this inward, self-focus into adulthood. These people, so overly concerned with their own well being in a self-centered way, never learnrepparttar 104700 secrets of influence. Successful people, who want to haverepparttar 104701 power of persuasion, turn their circle of activity and interest outward. They expand their centers to be as conscious ofrepparttar 104702 world around them as they are of themselves. They develop what we call, charisma.

Charisma means you have learned to:

1. Act with credibility. Those who are inconsistent in their behavior repel people while those who are consistent in their behavior draw people to them. To be influential, have integrity. Speak up for what you believe, then act accordingly.

Gerry Spence, one of America's greatest trial lawyers, said, "One can stand asrepparttar 104703 greatest oratorrepparttar 104704 world has known, possessrepparttar 104705 quickest mind, employrepparttar 104706 cleverest psychology, and have mastered allrepparttar 104707 technical devices of argument, but if one is not credible one might just as well preach torepparttar 104708 pelicans."

2. Be interested. Be truly interested inrepparttar 104709 other person. Treat him or her asrepparttar 104710 most important person you'll interact with that day - a VIP, Very Important Person. Smile at them, not just for a brief, dutiful second, but for a magical two or three seconds.

When you smile, lean towardrepparttar 104711 person a little, and think in your mind, "I like you. You are a great individual. I want to get to know you better." You'll be amazed atrepparttar 104712 connection and trust that will occur.

3. Extend respect. A few interaction skills that make a big difference to a respectful atmosphere in your organization include not interrupting conversations, asking ifrepparttar 104713 person has time to talk, and listening to ideas.

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