There are many important things that we need to teach children as they grow—but they have many natural behaviors that we shouldn’t try to change. In fact, we could learn a few things from kids! Here are some important lessons: Eat when you are hungry. From
time they are born, babies know when and how much they need to eat—and they cry to let us know too! As they grow, this important instinct can be un-learned. By
time they are adults, they may have learned to eat for many other reasons besides hunger—mealtimes, tempting food, stress, anger, boredom, and countless other triggers. By recognizing
difference between needing to eat and wanting to eat, adults can re-learn when and how much to eat too.
Stop eating when you are full. An infant will turn their head away when they have had enough to eat, and a toddler will throw a plate of food on
floor when they are done. But as adults, we clean our plates because “there are starving children” somewhere—or just because something tastes good. I am not suggesting that we start throwing our plates on
floor again, but we need to remember that food is abundant in our society so there is no need to eat it all now.
Being hungry makes you grouchy. Being hungry, tired, or frustrated make children—and adults—crabby! Starving yourself because you are too busy to eat or because you are trying to lose weight usually backfires.
Snacks are good. Kids naturally prefer to eat smaller meals with snacks in between whenever they get hungry. That pattern of eating keeps their energy level and metabolism stoked all day. Adults who need to fire up their metabolism should try this too.
Play with your food. Most kids love to examine, smell, and touch their food. Since eating is a total sensory experience, they get
most from every morsel. This childlike approach will help you eat less food while enjoying it more. You’ll appreciate
aroma, appearance, and flavors more if you aren’t driving, watching T.V., or standing in
kitchen!
All foods fit. Children are born with a natural preference for sweet and higher fat flavors. Though parents sometimes worry, these “fun” foods can be part of a healthy diet. In fact, overly restrictive food rules usually lead to rebellious eating anyway—just think about
last time you weren’t “allowed” to eat something on a diet! Children and adults both eat healthier when they learn to enjoy these less nutritious foods in moderation.
Be a picky eater. Kids won’t easily eat something they don’t like. Think of how much less food you would eat if you didn’t settle for food that tasted “so-so.”
You can learn to like new foods. Healthy eating is an acquired taste. Good nutrition is essential, so providing a variety of appealing, healthful foods will benefit
whole family. In our house, we have a two-bite rule. Everyone tastes two bites of everything; if they still don’t like it, they don’t have to eat it—but they have to try it again
next time we have it. Since that is “The Rule,” there are no battles at
table and
kids often surprise themselves by liking something they thought they wouldn’t. (And we never say “I told you so!”)