So, you’ve just got engaged.Whether you are a man or a woman you have an important decision to make (amongst
myriad of other decisions) about mens wedding rings. It’s this. Will
man in your relationship wear one?
Maybe that’s you, maybe not. But you both need to think about it.
You see it’s only since
second world war that modern men have started to publicly display their marital status by
wearing of a man wedding ring.
Prior to that it was rare for a man to wear a ring when he married. Men were able to hide their marital status behind
tradition that required a woman to wear a wedding ring, but not a man.
However during
war many US soldiers chose to wear mens wedding rings as a public symbol of their marital status whilst away at war and that has started a tradition for
modern man. Now it’s very common for a man to wear a mens wedding ring, perhaps
norm.
So, what decisions need to be made? Well
first is this. Will he wear one? That’s probably
hardest decision in
process.
For a woman there’s no decision. She’s engaged, she wants
ring. For her she needs an engagement ring as well as a wedding ring, and an expensive engagement ring at that. But for a man it’s not so straight forward.
So a very important part of
process is for both of you to talk about it. Do you both have strong feelings about
man wearing a man wedding ring, either one way or
other? Does
woman feel that if she is to publicly display her marital status then it’s only fair that he do
same? Does he have any reservations about wearing a ring and if so what are they? You both need to talk over your feelings about
wearing of a man wedding ring. Establish
groundwork.
Once and if you have made a decision that he will wear a ring then that’s just
start. It’s perfectly possible to buy a his and hers matching wedding ring set. These are rings designed as matching sets for you both so that both your wedding rings go well together. So are you going to look for matching rings, or just buy him a ring and focus on hers separately?
Next you have to decide what type of ring. There’s a whole world of designs for mens wedding rings out there. An enormous range of styles and materials. A man makes a statement about himself in selecting
ring he will wear for his wife, and she is a part of that statement if she is actively involved in
decision.
Think about his personality. Is he outgoing or shy? Is he outrageous or conservative? Is he flamboyant? Understated? When he buys clothes what does he select? Does he buy colourful flamboyant ties or ties which fit in with
style of
suit? Would he wear clothes which make him stand out from
crowd or does he prefer to meld in?