Nothing ever stays the same.

Written by Graham and Julie


Nothing ever staysrepparttar same. Onrepparttar 123166 one hand we despise change yet onrepparttar 123167 other we don’t want to stagnate and become boring. Yet our habits keep us locked into a course of action day after day, year after year. The way we think,repparttar 123168 way we behave,repparttar 123169 way we experience things,repparttar 123170 way we react to incidents, all are dominated by our habits. They are so strong that most of do not even know what they are. Whatever our habits are they keep us fixed in a particular perspective or behaviour. They stop us reaching our potential. Our habits are basically involuntary acts we perform unintentionally and without thinking. We just are them. Yes. We are our habits. Whether, you lack confidence, find it difficult to make decisions, always arrive late for an appointment, can’t say no …, feel lonely, feel stupid, think others always know best…… these are all habits. That’srepparttar 123171 bad news. The good news is that you can change. Change is based on choice. Once you realise what your habits are, you have more chance of changing them. It may not be easy. It may be painful, sometimes. But it is also fun and rewarding because you are changing your life. You are opening yourself to seerepparttar 123172 possibilities of your potential. What you are capable of. History shows us that there are four key ingredients to successfully change habits: Reflection, Realisation, Resolve and Sustained Effort. In other words all you have to do is imagine you arerepparttar 123173 gardener of your life: Reflect onrepparttar 123174 state of your garden. Realise what are weeds and what are flowers. Removerepparttar 123175 weeds Replacerepparttar 123176 weeds with flowers and make a sustained effort to keeprepparttar 123177 garden clear of weeds you don’t want. So. What isrepparttar 123178 largest weed in your garden? Which habit causes you most pain?

AN EXTRAORDINARY PERSON

Written by Hifzur Rehman


I am not going to tell yourepparttar story of an extraordinary person, who did remarkable things in life. Why should I?

Are you not an extraordinary person? What do you think about yourself? You possess allrepparttar 123165 assets of an extraordinary person but, unfortunately, you are not an extraordinary person because you don’t think so.

Your low belief level about your own capabilities is blocking your way in achieving extraordinary success in life. Your Creator gave yourepparttar 123166 equal opportunity of becoming an extraordinary person in your own individual manner. He equipped your body withrepparttar 123167 same tools and gadgets as he equippedrepparttar 123168 body of any other extraordinary person. No extraordinary organ has been implanted by God inrepparttar 123169 bodies of those people who are living or have lived an extraordinary life.

You must be working hard to maintain a reasonable standard of life for yourself and your family. Is it enough? Can you become an extraordinary person just by doing 9 to 5 jobs? Absolutely not! Don’t walk onrepparttar 123170 off-beaten tracks paved forrepparttar 123171 ordinary people. Don’t followrepparttar 123172 crowd and don’t copy others. You are not an ordinary person.

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