When you need an auto mechanic or an air conditioning repairman, where do you turn for help? Sure, some people turn to
yellow pages. But most will turn to friends and family and ask if they know of anyone who can do
work. The best place for your business to be positioned is to be
business on
tips of
tongues of
people asked to make
referral.
THE 300 RULE
Preachers, funeral directors and people in a few other professions have learned "the 300 rule" through their own personal experience.
"The 300 rule" states that
average person knows 300 people on a friendly level. Wedding planners tend to make reservations for 300 guests. Funeral directors tend to need to make room for 300 mourners. You get
idea.
DOODLING WITH CIRCLES OF INFLUENCE
Imagine your circle of friends, family and acquaintances, a.k.a. your circle of influence. Now, draw your circle of influence as a circle on a blank piece of paper.
Next, contemplate
people in your parents' circle of influence. Some people who know your parents also know you. Therefore, you will share some influence with
people your folks know. Now draw your parents' circle of influence on your piece of paper.
Your circle and your parents' circle will intersect in one area, although
larger majority of
two circles will not intersect. If you are like most people,
two circles on your page at this point looks very similar to
MasterCard logo.
Now imagine drawing a page full of intersecting circles, each circle representing
circle of influence of
people who are within your own circle of influence. Imagine trying to encapsulate an accurate rendering of where your circle and
circle of your friends will actually intersect.
Some circles will share a large area of space, while others will barely cover one another.
Actually, you can only imagine at this point what your piece of paper will look like. The actual layout of
circles imagined in this analogy is simply too overwhelming for
mind to comprehend.