Breaking into conversational groups is one of
things people ask me about when I'm conducting networking sessions. There's a buzz that hovers over a crowded room that comes from all those people conversing. You need to break into that buzz to be a great networker.Let's face it, looking at a room full of people you don't know can be intimidating. At first glance, it appears everyone knows everyone else --- except you! The first thing you need to remember is that this is not true. The only difference between you and all those others is that they have been in
room five minutes longer than you have. They have had an opportunity to begin a conversation with at least one person, so they appear at ease. All you have to do is find one person to speak with, and you will be just as at home.
Ah, but that's
problem. How do you break into
buzz? Here are a couple of ideas.
First, find
refreshment table or
bar, depending on
time of day
event is being held. Now you are going to make your way over there, but don't make a mad dash with your eye firmly locked on
coffee pot. Instead, walk over in a leisurely way, looking over
people as you go. You may notice someone you know, or someone you have been wanting to meet. If you note where they are standing, you can move in that direction once you have your coffee.