NARCISSISM (n. sing.)A pattern of traits and behaviours which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to
exclusion of all others and
egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition.
Narcissism is named after
ancient Greek myth of Narcissus who was a handsome Greek youth who rejected
desperate advances of
nymph Echo.
In punishment of his cruelty, he was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water.
Unable to consummate his love, he pined away and changed into
flower that bears his name to this very day.
WHAT IS NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder)?
The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) has been recognized as a seperate mental health disorder in
third edition of
Diagnostic and Statistics Manual (DSM) in 1980. Its diagnostic criteria and their interpretation have undergone a major revision in
DSM III-R (1987) and were substantially revamped in
DSM IV in 1994. The European ICD-10 basically contains identical language.
An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy, usually beginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts. Five (or more) of
following criteria must be met:
(1) Feels grandiose and self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents to
point of lying, demands to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
(2) Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all-conquering love or passion
(3) Firmaly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions)
(4) Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (narcissistic supply).
(5) Feels entitled. Expects unreasonable or special and favourable priority treatment. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her expectations
(6) Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or her own ends
(7) Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge
feelings and needs of others
(8) Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel
same about him or her