Miscommunication - Root Cause of Problems?
People of two opposing ideas can stir up arguments and fights. It's that situation when one thinks he has right concept while other one also believes he has proper notion. Both of them would try to outsmart each other until one claims victory.
Here's an actual example.
My spouse would sometimes buy me signature clothing. When my Mom founds out how much it costs, she would advise us to budget our money and just buy affordable ones.
A problem occurs when my spouse thinks that her effort to give me best was unappreciated. Mom, on other hand, would think that my spouse is such a spender.
There's a conflict with their beliefs. No two people are exactly alike. We are totally unique; not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well.
There will be many times when your opinion will not correspond with that of another. So how can people prevent this kind of conflict from occurring?
Communication is key to overcome doubts and misunderstandings.
You should let other people know what's in your mind. Don't keep them guessing.
There was a story about two couples who were filing a divorce. After lawyer have spoken to them both, he found out that root cause of all their problems was due to miscommunication.
Here's one of couple's problems.
The man filing divorce said that he just hated breakfast meal that his wife often prepared for him. On other hand, wife said that she's only preparing meal because she thought it was her husband's favorite. But she never liked cooking it because it's very difficult to prepare.