I used to think that parenting took top honors, but really, a good marriage lasts a lot longer than a good childhood. After all, kids do move out eventually, but spouse stays.

Never type to do things half-heartedly, my husband and I up ante when it comes to spending time together. We have breakfast together. We ride to work together. We work all day together. We ride home together. We eat dinner together. We go to bed together.

This could be a recipe for disaster, but instead, we think it's coolest thing ever, and we never take that for granted.

With all that proximity, we have learned tremendous patience and we've got a killer sense of humor. This means that even in our snarkiest moments, we know we will find a reason to crack up about it later.

In fact, some of our favorite stories are about moments of extreme mindlessness, and if truth be told, I tend to be mindless one.

I know, I know. I'm supposed to be mindfulness expert. Well, as I always insist, you can't be mindful of everything AT ONCE, right?

So, here is my favorite mindless moment--and what I learned from it.... While moving from Oregon to Montana several years ago, my husband was driving U-Haul packed with all of our worldly possessions. Inside cab of truck with him was our second daughter, Tara, and our hyperactive yellow Lab, Thor. Meanwhile, I was driving behind him in car with other three daughters.

Until you learn to use Law of Attraction in a deliberate way, most of time you are not aware that you are attracting into your life-more of-whatever you are giving your focus, attention, and energy to. This is referred to as non-deliberate attraction. It can be described in a 4-step cycle:

Step 1: I observe what I'm attracting in any area of my life.

Step 2: While observing what I'm attracting, I'm offering a corresponding vibration, whether negative or positive.

Step 3: The Law of Attraction is always checking in to see what my vibration is and matches it obediently, whether wanted or unwanted.

Step 4: As Law of Attraction responds to my vibration, I receive or manifest into my life, more of what I was observing in first place.

Then, cycle begins at Step 1 and repeats itself over and over again. Here's how cycle may be working in your life right now.