Mind Power and Self Motivation

Written by MUHAMMAD FARHAN


If you called my office you will hear my voice mail message that ends withrepparttar words “Expect Success.”

There’s a important intent behind that. What if every time we made a phone call or personal request or met with a potential new customer, you expected you would be successful? Do you think your behavior would be different?

If we truly expected success we would make more phone calls, make more requests and schedule more appointments. And that would result in more business, more income, more ease in our workday, and more overall success.

When we call people or meet with them, we have to holdrepparttar 122893 attitude that we are offering them an opportunity—an important opportunity, and maybe evenrepparttar 122894 perfect opportunity for them. If they do not go for it, that’s fine. Our responsibility to ourselves is to makerepparttar 122895 offer. It doesn’t matter whatrepparttar 122896 thoughts and actions ofrepparttar 122897 other person are; it doesn’t matter whether they agree to what you are offering or not. What matters is that you go for what you want allrepparttar 122898 time, every time, and are as proactive and confident as you would be if you knew you could not miss.

As you well know success is not a destination we arrive at; it is an attitude we hold alongrepparttar 122899 way. Allrepparttar 122900 joy of our professional lives is not inrepparttar 122901 outcome, but inrepparttar 122902 process. Do not rob yourself ofrepparttar 122903 satisfaction that lies onrepparttar 122904 path alongrepparttar 122905 way—enjoy every call you place, every order you take, every presentation you make. Revel inrepparttar 122906 process of being a success—today.

To expect more success, more ofrepparttar 122907 time, follow these steps:

- Acknowledge allrepparttar 122908 small successes inrepparttar 122909 process. Count your “wins” daily. Wins are all those things that go your way in a given day—the letter you wrote,repparttar 122910 VIP you finally got hold of,repparttar 122911 parking ticket you eluded,repparttar 122912 compliment you received.

- Smile. Both psychologically and physiologically, this simple, easy action improves our well-being, which improves our outlook, which prepares us for allrepparttar 122913 great things we are expecting to happen to us. To become fit and healthy from a success standpoint, give your smile muscles a workout just likerepparttar 122914 rest of your body.

Dreams Are Waiting

Written by R.G. Srinivasan


Dreams, dreams and more dreams! So many dreams are waiting to be realized!

The world is created out of dreams. Call it imagination, goals, objectives, aims or anythingrepparttar dictionary can hold out for shaping a future event,repparttar 122892 root is alwaysrepparttar 122893 dreams. One man’s dream transforms an entire nation, people, events – history.

A man’s dream illuminesrepparttar 122894 world –repparttar 122895 light bulb.

A dream puts man on space andrepparttar 122896 same dream nurtured by other people would one day lead man torepparttar 122897 intergalactic wonderful worlds yet unknown to man and with itrepparttar 122898 widening ofrepparttar 122899 narrow world view that we hold today

Do you have a dream? Are you nurturing them regularly with your imagination? Are you building on your dreams everyday?

I am certain, for most of people overrepparttar 122900 age of 35 have left their grand dreams of childhood and youth somewhere alongrepparttar 122901 path of life strewn with negativity. We are steeped and believe more inrepparttar 122902 negatives of life that dreams no longer hold any meaning. At bestrepparttar 122903 dreams have been scaled down to levels which are justified as practical, pragmatic thinking. We ridicule dreamers as good for nothing guys, impractical, day dreamers who can never do anything.

The knocks of life makes one believe that you cannot dream big. You must be practical and scale down your dreams to what your status is today. You are told to convert everything into a mathematical models where two plus two can add to four. There is no scope for creating a twenty-two or more by applying creativity. And slowly, unknowingly they conspire to bring down your dreams and bring you down to their mundane and ordinary levels, so that they can deal with you better. And slowly but surely,repparttar 122904 moment your dreams become smaller and smaller, your successes become that much smaller and ultimately, one vanishes into mediocrity and failure.

This isrepparttar 122905 truth with most of us. And morerepparttar 122906 pity because we too joinrepparttar 122907 crowd and destroy other people’s dreams. I am sure most of us can identifyrepparttar 122908 situation in our own lives.

Our dreams are getting smaller. Fromrepparttar 122909 fantastic incomes one visualized to a paltry four or five figure salaries, fromrepparttar 122910 dream of building a mansion to a chicken coup of a flat in some dilapidated neighborhood, from roamingrepparttar 122911 world in star cruises to a small overcrowded and commercialized hill station a few hours drive away…a life scaled down fromrepparttar 122912 giant screens to a 20” color televisions.

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