If you called my office you will hear my voice mail message that ends with
words “Expect Success.” There’s a important intent behind that. What if every time we made a phone call or personal request or met with a potential new customer, you expected you would be successful? Do you think your behavior would be different?
If we truly expected success we would make more phone calls, make more requests and schedule more appointments. And that would result in more business, more income, more ease in our workday, and more overall success.
When we call people or meet with them, we have to hold
attitude that we are offering them an opportunity—an important opportunity, and maybe even
perfect opportunity for them. If they do not go for it, that’s fine. Our responsibility to ourselves is to make
offer. It doesn’t matter what
thoughts and actions of
other person are; it doesn’t matter whether they agree to what you are offering or not. What matters is that you go for what you want all
time, every time, and are as proactive and confident as you would be if you knew you could not miss.
As you well know success is not a destination we arrive at; it is an attitude we hold along
way. All
joy of our professional lives is not in
outcome, but in
process. Do not rob yourself of
satisfaction that lies on
path along
way—enjoy every call you place, every order you take, every presentation you make. Revel in
process of being a success—today.
To expect more success, more of
time, follow these steps:
- Acknowledge all
small successes in
process. Count your “wins” daily. Wins are all those things that go your way in a given day—the letter you wrote,
VIP you finally got hold of,
parking ticket you eluded,
compliment you received.
- Smile. Both psychologically and physiologically, this simple, easy action improves our well-being, which improves our outlook, which prepares us for all
great things we are expecting to happen to us. To become fit and healthy from a success standpoint, give your smile muscles a workout just like
rest of your body.