Melting The Thinking Mind: Is your self confidence based on what you accomplished in the past?

Written by Charlie Badenhop


Do you ever find that your level of self confidence tends to go up and down likerepparttar stock market? Or perhaps it even goes up and down along withrepparttar 123544 stock market! Here is a story about a Japanese businessman that might give you a new perspective.

I recently heard from a friend, about a Japanese business man that has created a highly successful business with hundreds of stores throughoutrepparttar 123545 country. At first I thought my friend was going to be telling me aboutrepparttar 123546 "how to" of business success, but insteadrepparttar 123547 story took quite a different path than I was expecting. What follows is my version of an inspiring story.

The man in my story had actually failed at numerous businesses overrepparttar 123548 years. He started out with a large and successful family business, but he ran that business intorepparttar 123549 ground and eventually went bankrupt. After his bankruptcy he said, "Even though my business had failed, I did not feel like I had failed. I still had confidence in myself. I still knew that I could do something good. I didn't try to figure out allrepparttar 123550 details of what I had done right or wrong, I didn't try to understand whether I was a good business man or a bad business man. I just continued to believe in myself, andrepparttar 123551 vision that I had."

After his bankruptcy he searched around and managed to borrow some money for a new business. In a reasonably short amount of time he ran this business into bankruptcy as well. Afterwards he said, "Even more so now, I still had confidence in myself. I had seen some flashes of brilliance, and I knew that I could do something good. Once again, I didn't try to figure out right or wrong, good or bad, I only concentrated on how I could borrow more money and start all over again."

So, he manages to borrow some more money, and starts another business, and of course this business also goes bankrupt, or I wouldn't be telling this story! After his third bankruptcy he said "I knew I was getting closer to getting it right." What a fantastic spirit this guy has! He has huge confidence inrepparttar 123552 face of big time short term failure.

Back out onrepparttar 123553 streets he went, and this time he only managed to borrow a rather small sum of money. Not being able to start a "real" business with such a limited amount of cash, he rented a small Japanese pick-up truck. (The small ones are REALLY small. Sort of like a bonsai version of an American pick-up truck). With little money to spend he shopped around in various wholesale markets and wound up deciding to only buy things that he could sell cheaply with no seeming connection torepparttar 123554 various products, except that they were inexpensive and of reasonable quality. He loaded his goods intorepparttar 123555 back of his tiny pick-up truck and parked illegally on a busy street where he hawked his wares torepparttar 123556 passersby, andrepparttar 123557 launch of a new retail phenomena had begun. Over time he parleyedrepparttar 123558 success he had with his one tiny truck, into a chain of highly successful stores.

How to use your pain to gain

Written by Nicholas Dixon


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Pain.All of us have felt that emotion some time orrepparttar other.And most of us fear that heart-wrenching feeling that pain brings.We all have to deal with it , but some people treat it differently.

Successful people recognise and userepparttar 123543 value of pain to gain in there lives.Any person who is a success carries with them a lot of pain inside.But what makes them different ? Simple.Pain isrepparttar 123544 only road to true success in life.And that can be personal , business or family.

Athletes are a prime example .To berepparttar 123545 best , they have to train and stretch their muscles.This in turn strengthens and builds them which makes them powerful.But to achieve this as you know can be very painful.But , these athletes know that to bearrepparttar 123546 pain gives themrepparttar 123547 edge to gain.

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